Memories - about 10 years ago I joined this site

Location

Düsseldorf, Germany
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I'm here to

I'm here to meet guys and girls of any age.

About me

I am retired ... Joined dating sites in with Asian women in 2011 and later POF and DiA.

POF has changed to money making and now I want to see after 9 or 10 years how it has changed since then.

I have met hundreds of women, few men, which is standard in most dating pages because the focus is on "love-relationships" and nothing else - mainly.

Gays and Lesbian or other special characters usually are found in their special worlds just created for them.

I am not focused on anything in here - just to see and meet people - maybe something unexpected happens one day as it did 9 years ago... but it is not a must - I have my friends and some who say they really love me though we have never met personally but only on internet.

So that's my current concern and sometimes I might not be in here for a good while caused by many local and international duties or tasks or taking care of some friends.

I am thinking about leaving Germany forever with seldom short time periods of return but things always went on unexpected and I had to stay here with two exceptions - once I went to HK in order to marry a Filipina and another time I went to BKK in order to talk about marriage ... hmm - both went bad ...

Okay - let's see who comes across....

2026-03-16 E.H.A.

About you

More serious with some humor blinking once in a while, thoughtful with broad knowledge about life and global matters - understanding more then pure words.

A good hearted person but strong enough to stand up for individual values and still accepting other minds but must not want to stay with other people unless it creates a click.

Able to live alone but also able to adapt into a new life - a new world - understanding the permanent changes life is presenting us - each day...

Well - this is part of myself....old enough to know what I am talking about and looking at this world every day and not feeling bored at all - maybe feeling angry mostly about the general stupidity of societies and followers ... yes it sounds rude but looking at such mechanism more closely it might frighten you to understand such magic of stupidity which is not often recognized by such people.

I guess, now you understand what I am really concerned of like education for the people and freedom of mind and fairness for everybody - no matter as what or who one has been born!

I love to have a good conversation with others but it is very hard to find nowadays people with an open and broad mind ...

Don't feel bad about me words - all of us can grow, if we only want to grow and most rather complain....

Take care and that's me!

2026-03-16

E.H.A.

2026-03-18 - UPDATE

This is a copy of a reply I wrote to one woman on OYOY...It shall help anybody to understand better me and what I am striving for. Any replies or comments are welcome.

E.H.A.