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4'11" (149cm) and slim.
Waiting for someone whom I can deeply connect with. (^^)
Location
Iloilo, Philippines [ show map ]
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I'm here to meet guys 45 to 60 years old for friendship and serious relationship.
About me
Free-spirited old-soul sigma empath...
Waiting for someone whom I can deeply connect with. (^^)
My Interests:
I like photography, D.I.Y. crafts, fitness and martial arts. I love exploring nature, hiking, climbing (fruit trees), snorkeling, swimming, and canyoneering on vacation. I want to try extreme sports sky diving, paragliding, flyboard and maybe bungee jumping (with you). LET'S GO! (✿◠‿◠)
Spirt-filled Born Again Christian. Inquisitive and enjoys learning new things, never stops evolving mentally and emotionally and growing spiritually.
Straightforward, spontaneous, affectionate, thoughtful, compassionate, mindful, intuitive, and insightful. As an INFJ I am very loyal, have a very eclectic spirit, don't follow the norms, and think creatively. I also enjoy intellectual conversation and a good laugh.
My goal is to live life in a Godly way. To be a blessing that my future husband prayed for. Become the answer to his prayers, help his ministries, and support his goals and visions. To love him unconditionally.
My ultimate goal is to finish the race, endure all trials in this journey, meet my creator one day, and hear Him say, "Well done my child".
Hopefully, someday I will have a loving family in God's grace.
To grow my organic food and livestock. When God willing, I hope to live off the grid on a homestead in the countryside.
***WHAT I VALUE IN RELATIONSHIP ****
Meeting someone mentally, emotionally, and spiritually mature would be a great blessing. I believe a couple keeps learning from each other and growing together as a team. Both are humble and selfless, willing to learn and grow together in the Lord.
The keys to a happy marriage are when they both understand the value of integrity and unconditional love, they reciprocate each other by giving-and-taking relationships. They are kind to each other even to the smallest or petty things (both are forgiving and affectionate).
For a long-lasting harmonious relationship, both understand that in building a real connection and strong bond with their partner, qualities such as empathy, respect, honesty, reciprocity, vulnerability, openness, transparency, accountability, loyalty, patience, trust, and shared core values are an integral part in their daily union.
Also, both must have something they enjoy doing together and laugh together.
Moreover if one has to lead, one must lead by good example. A leader is a good listener, one has to have the skills to communicate their feelings, thoughts, and intentions very well and vice versa. Most of all both pray together, follow God's words, love God above all and second is their spouse.
Indeed, a HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP/ marriage is a TEAMWORK.
Both work hard to love and serve the other half.
Both are FORGIVING people who don't keep score.
Both know the art of COMMUNICATION (active listening and comprehension).
An apology without changing behavior is manipulation.
Trust is honesty, integrity, reliability, and emotional safety.
Love is fighting the problem NOT fighting each other.
Love equals effort (mutual sacrifices), it's an action NOT merely words.
EFFORT HAS MORE VALUE THAN WORDS.
"Everyone wants something REAL until they meet someone whose real standards challenge them to be REAL consistent, REAL considerate & REAL committed."
Things that seem like Love:
. Physical intimacy
. Constant phone calls
. Obsession/ Attention
. Frequent dates
. Gifts and money
What Love truly is:
. Respect
. Forgiveness
. Trust
. Sacrifice
. Commitment
. Mutual support
. Shared goals
. Communication
About you
WAITING FOR SOMEONE WHO IS EMOTIONALLY AND MENTALLY MATURE. A man with a big heart. I'd like to be with someone who will complement each other's lives. One who matches my energy shares common core values and is on the same wavelength. I want to be with a good man who can bring loyalty, stability, and consistency to a relationship.
I'm only available for a mature love. The type of love where both of us are self-aware and emotionally intelligent so we can love each other right and not sabotage the relationship.
Let's be friends first (and see what the Lord has in store for us), share ideas, and learn things under the sun...
God bless everyone in your search!
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WHAT DO I DO IN MY FREE TIME?
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I'm self-studying about lots of things in YouTube Academy and Google Academy.
Here are some of the lists I have learned and keep on upgrading.
I learned D.I.Y crafts, cooking, farming, landscaping, building cob houses, monolithic dome homes, cordwood houses (I love cordwood crafts), woodworking, and anything about wood crafting using resin epoxy design (still updating my interest and learning new things about these crafts). Also, I'm interested in a Sustainable Off-the-Grid Homestead on top of the mountain. Invite me...! (✿◠‿◠)
I keep upgrading and learning about medicine, neuroscience, neurology, naturopathic medicine, medicine food cabinet, healing through food nutrition, healthy lifestyles and diets (and keep upgrading my knowledge through reading and watching medical documentaries)
Also, I have been learning about the human psyche, neuropsychology, psychology/psychotherapy and personality traits, human pathology/ pathological disorders, psychopathy, DSM-5, etc...
I keep learning through reading articles/books, watching videos, and listening to PhDs who have deep knowledge and long practice in their field of study.
(The knowledge I learned is useful in helping people with their mental problems, trauma, struggles, and more. It enables me to help them find healing through cognitive counseling with a Biblical perspective and a Spirit-led ministry.)
Most of all, I keep studying God's word to grow closer to Him and become Christlike.
I've been reading online articles about marriage, listening to and watching sermons about biblical marriage, marriage conflicts, how to be a good loving spouse in biblical aspects, and more...
Still updating and passionate about learning new things...
As an INFJ, I'm hungry to learn new things. I guess this won't end until the Lord brings me home. It's fun learning about anything under the sun. Being able to help and share the knowledge I have learned.