Very tired of searching. Still searching :/
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Dundee (Scotland), United Kingdom [ show map ]
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I'm here to meet girls 18 to 36 years old for dating and serious relationship.
About me
The photos are not good, and yes they're all jeans and t-shirts. But at least they're not "improved" in any way. But irritatingly, this website has cropped some of them in ways I didn't want. The dates and locations were, in the order displayed: 2021/England (main), 2010/Vietnam, 2012/Australia, 2022/Turkey, 2022/England, 2018/Vietnam, 2016/England, 2011/Australia, 2017/Cambodia, 2022/Turkey x 3. The older ones are partly so you can see how I'm aging, ha ha.
I was born in England, normally live in Australia, but have intermittently lived and worked in E & SE Asia for a total of nearly 10 years.
Ideally I'd like to return to Australia with Ms Right, but depending on circumstances that may not be possible, so I'm open-minded (within limits).
I have a degree in engineering, electronics and computing, but could easily have attained something higher. I didn't like formal study though. Most of what I know is self-taught.
Mostly in the past I worked as a consultant systems / software designer / developer, also I worked a little as an English teacher.
At my age and with the work I used to do, I should be retired and quite affluent. But many things went wrong in the past, various things, various times, so I still have to work. Currently I'm thinking about what to do next in my life.
I'm very honest, loyal, kind, considerate, polite, friendly, caring, altruistic, deep thinking, borderline intellectual. I can listen as well as talk. If I'm wrong about something I'll change my mind, even if it's difficult (but will need a reason, otherwise my views are worthless).
I try to see things as they really are, not as I want them to be, which sometimes to give me an unusual outlook on life.
After years of research into the subject, I believe nothing superstitious or spiritual or mystical, including religion, and I think belief in such things by anybody is harmful to us all and to the planet, so I have very little tolerance for them.
In the past I've had many interests, but right now not so many. However I read a lot, like coffee, tea, (a little) bitter beer and red wine, usually exercise often to try to stay slim and fit, used to do many outdoor activities, much prefer nature and quiet to cities and noise.
I drink little and usually only socially, really hate smoking, "recreational" drugs, and think gambling is stupid.
I've never married and have no children. That was not the plan and I definitely should not be alone and still single at my age. But that's mostly not my fault, at least I don't think so.
Hopefully it's not too late to meet the lady I always thought I could find quite easily... but somehow haven't!
About you
Someone completely honest, ethical, loyal, kind, gentle, smart / educated / rational enough to really talk to and share everything with, with some common interests and without conflicting interests.
Ideally never married (like myself), but divorced or widowed may be OK, without children.
Despite my age I'd still like the chance to try for children, and that forces me to look for someone much younger than me, otherwise I wouldn't care about age.
Please don't be offended by this, biology gives me no choice.
Personal info
5'8" (172cm) and average body type.
