shelcat • 31

I am Ready to settle down

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Mahayag, Philippines
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I'm here to

I'm here to meet guys 34 to 60 years old for dating, friendship, serious relationship and networking.

About me

Life has taken me through experiences I never imagined I would face. At one point, I became the victim of a love scam—an experience that left me hurt, confused, and questioning my trust in others. What I believed was a genuine connection turned out to be deception. It was painful not only emotionally, but also mentally and spiritually. I had opened my heart with sincerity, only to realize that the person I trusted was not who they claimed to be.

Being a victim of a love scam is something many people suffer in silence. There is often embarrassment, shame, and self-blame attached to it. But over time, I have come to understand that being deceived does not make me weak—it means I was genuine. It means I was capable of love, hope, and commitment. And those are not flaws; they are strengths.

Today, I stand stronger and wiser. I have learned valuable lessons about boundaries, self-worth, and the importance of taking time to truly know someone. I no longer see myself as just a victim, but as someone who survived, healed, and grew.

Now, I am ready to settle down—not out of loneliness, but out of clarity. I know what I want: honesty, stability, mutual respect, and real love built on truth. My past does not define me; it prepared me. And I believe that the right person will appreciate not only my heart, but also my resilience.

Be serious, i always been in hurt aches. I am not here for scam , not for money and not for games

I am simple lady who wish to find my true love. A man who have one word, and never withdraw his promises.