Entering The Matrix
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Location
San Diego (CA), United States
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I'm here to meet girls 18 to 50 years old for friendship, networking and more.
About me
Most people call me Jay now based on my middle name. A long time ago it was Rosy, a play on my first name, but that feels like another life. I’ve spent much of my career working with people from different cultures, mainly in Asia, which changed how I see the world—and myself—in good ways.
I’m practical, curious, and steady. I value good conversation, mutual respect, and knowing when to listen. I’ve lived enough life to appreciate simplicity: shared laughter, good food, live music, long walks, and comfort with silence.
Where I’m At
I’m separated by mutual understanding, with no drama or bitterness. Life changes; sometimes people grow in different directions. That’s okay. Family remains important to me, and I’m thoughtful about how I move through this next chapter.
I plan to relocate to Asia within the next couple of years, a region that already feels familiar and meaningful to me.
What I’m Looking For (For Now)
At this stage, I’m seeking friendship first—genuine connections, conversation, shared interests. I’m not in a rush, and I’m not chasing an outcome. I’ve learned that the best things develop naturally, or not at all.
Romance isn’t the goal right now. Connection is.
Interests
• Travel and living abroad
• Music (especially live and soulful)
• History, culture, and ideas
• Walking cities rather than rushing through them
• Thoughtful people who know who they are
If This Resonates
If you enjoy meaningful conversation, value independence, and aren’t in a hurry to define everything immediately, we’ll probably get along just fine.
About you
Friendly, outgoing
Personal info
5'8" (173cm) and a few extra kg / pounds.