nclebln • 24

Simple me

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I'm here to meet guys minimum 30 years old for dating and networking.

About me

I am a mom of two, carrying not just responsibilities but years of anxiety, trauma, and silent battles that no one really sees. I learned to be independent at such a young age because life didn’t give me much of a choice. Growing up, I was always the one who stepped up—supporting, providing, giving—sometimes even when I had little left for myself. I became strong not because it was easy, but because it was necessary.

I am the breadwinner. I am the fixer. I am the one who makes sure everything and everyone is okay. I’m so used to being the giver that I forgot what it feels like to receive. I’m too generous, too selfless, always the one who pays, plans, sacrifices, and stands firm so others don’t have to fall. People admire my strength, but they rarely ask how heavy it gets.

Deep inside, there’s a soft part of me that longs for rest. A part of me that wishes—just once—I wouldn’t have to be the strong one. I want to feel what it’s like to be taken care of, to be spoiled without guilt, to be treated gently and intentionally. I want to feel like someone chooses me, invests in me, and says, “You don’t have to do everything alone anymore.”

I don’t want luxury—I want effort. I don’t want perfection—I want sincerity. I want to feel like a princess, not because I need saving, but because even the strongest women deserve to be loved softly. I’ve carried myself for so long. I just hope that one day, someone will see my strength and still choose to hold my heart with care.

About you

I want to feel what it’s like to be taken care of, to be spoiled without guilt, to be treated gently and intentionally. I want to feel like someone chooses me, invests in me, and says, “You don’t have to do everything alone anymore.”