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I'm here to

I'm here to meet guys minimum 44 years old for serious relationship.

About me

Unlike most women, I speak mind - logic over feelings. If u're overly sensitive, consider this ur warning: think twice before connecting with me.

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Still here? 🧐... Ok, keep reading.

I have zero patience for fake & arrogant people. And If I don’t like u... u'll know.☕

I struggle to tolerate clueless people who are full of themselves but empty of wisdom. 😵‍💫 Dealing w/ such individuals requires another patience I simply don’t possess. 🤷🙎

⚠️ fair alert: I'm NOT looking for casual arrangements or ambiguous relationships. If u're looking for a short term relationship or some sort of "holiday romance" - I kindly ask that u refrain from reaching out.

If u're in an undefined/complicated relationship - finish ur story, close the book, then start a new chapter. Let bygones be bygones. We don’t read books backward, do we?

And u... YES YOU, a married man! What u're doing here is none of my business... but ur guts message me and ask me to be ur gf??? bruh! that's bold! I cant wait to track u down and introduce myself to ur wife. LOL

And for those who call me arrogant (?!) pfff..😣 Sir, I named it "self-respect". Learn the difference. 😉

ok....enough with the tension, let's chill a bit.. shall we?☕

About me? Libra, INFJ more otrovert, divorced, a mom of a 24yo - young man. My only son is based in another province w/ his mates.

City-bred but homebody by nature, I only leave for essentials… and even then, it better be worth my steps. Lol. Still, I do luv traveling, sightseeing, & trying street-food. 😎 If u’re visiting a cool spot on vacation, ur inner adventurer is gonna drag u out, right? Just don't ever leave me in unknown territory without GPS, I might not return !!!😣

I'm a foodie to the core - cooking, eating, and chasing spice like it's therapy. If u can handle spicy food - I'd like u even more! 😍🔥

Appearance? Well, I do believe I could be a supermodel.. IF I was slim, tall, had a higher nose, longer legs, longer hair, basically born in a different body.😝
Point is: DON'T expect too much!😂

If u're looking for a stylish slim girl in high-heels 👠, hold an iPhone w/ branded handbag - I’m the wrong damn playlist. 🙅 SKIP ME for ur own good - Let's save us both time. 😉 I’m NOT slim, and NOT that kind of feminine 🙅 ... I’m NOT the woman who acts like the world’s ending cuz she broke a nail doing chores or freaks out cuz her hair got a little wild in the rain. My brain runs business not beauty pageants. Sneakers and flip-flops are basically my daily uniform.😎

I’m not so really on social media - no personal accounts and don't ask me to create one! Too busy being mysterious and important. lol. 🤪 Yet, I assure u that I’m a real, living human being - fully equipped with limbs, anatomy, & senses.😉Okay okay fine, I admit it - I've tiktok 😆. Well, sometimes u just need to scroll mindlessly and remind urself u're human. 🤷 It’s called balance. 🙆.

Religion/belief/faith (named it) : believe what u've believed.. meet me halfway. Respect mine, I'll respect urs.🤝

I have tattoos - a youthful stupidity that I can't fix. 🤷 (fyi: I've NEVER worked in a bar just because I have it!) - u guys are way too judgmental. ckckck... 😏😖 So If I'm not ur cup of tea, no worries. 🤗 I drink coffee anyway.☕ It keeps me shinning in my own path. 😉

PS: Asking for my phone number is like coming to a party empty-handed. No dice. 😉 Pass the trivia quiz about me then I’ll decide when to share. 🥂

Woaahhh ... u actually read all this??? 😐 Are u that bored? 😱 Well, prove u're worthy of my attention - drop ur zodiac sign!

About you

hmm... many ask me about Luv Language (if it matters to u too): FOOD. Yep, the fastest way to calm me down - especially if u've managed to mess up my day. Just saying! 😄

But on a more serious note, here’s the ranking 😉:

1. Physical Touch: Forehead kisses, holding hands, cuddling - even in public. These little gestures are the sweetest and the bare minimum to show u care.

2. Acts of Service: Relationships are a two-way street - it’s all about take and give. It’s not about keeping score but putting in effort is where it counts.

3. Quality Time: Whatever the plan is, I’m in. A big adventure or just vibing at home binge-watching a Netflix marathon with ugly pajamas? ... I’m good with both as long as we’re spending time together.

4. Words of Affirmation: Beyond the usual “I luv u” or “I miss u” (solid classic which are great, btw), but those thoughtful good morning nor good night texts?
Super cute. Elite. Premium. That’s love with receipts. Don’t u dare act like u don’t melt a little when u get one. Yeah, roll those eyes again .. I can see ur heart smiling. 😏😠🤨🙄

Hmmm what else? 🤔

Owh... I believe in Responsible Freedom - being loyal and honest, not bcoz someone’s watching, but bcoz u value the bond u chose. I don’t need to control or be controlled. I just want the kind of connection where both people are free, yet still choose each other - every time. 😉

Respect is respect - Knowing where to draw the line and honoring boundaries are matters to me. Yes, respect has to be earned - but it’s NOT something we should have to beg for either. So, meet me halfway, where effort and respect go hand in hand.
If this intimidated u... I simply not for u.

Overall:
-Actions match words.
-Effort that doesn’t need reminders.
-U treat me good, I'll treat u better.
-Don’t ask for honesty if u can’t stomach it. I read emotions like a map, expect directions u may not like.
-Don’t play hard to get. I'm not a teenager, I won't chase u.
-If u’re a grown man, act like one... step up.😉☕

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