love is illusive • 48
love is illusive
love is illusive • 48

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#stargazing

Location

  Cagayan de Oro, Philippines  [ show map ]

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I'm here to meet guys minimum 61 years old for dating, friendship, serious relationship and networking.

About me

The first time I met Love
My heart was broken
and I asked
“How could you have betrayed me?”
And Love replied
“It was your expectations. I am incapable of betrayal.”

The second time I met Love
My spirit felt crushed
and I asked
“How could you have hurt me?”
And Love replied
“It was your reaction to the situation.
I am incapable of causing pain.”

The third time I met Love
My energy was drained
and I asked
“How could you have depleted me?”
And Love replied
“It was your lack of self-love and failure to set appropriate boundaries.
I am incapable of depleting you.”

The fourth time I met Love
My entire being felt alone
and I asked
“How could you have abandoned me?”
And Love replied
“I am always with you and can never leave you
As I dwell within you.”

The fifth time I met Love
My soul felt vulnerable, naked and exposed
and I asked i
“How could you have embarrassed me?"
And Love replied
“It was your ego that caused you to feel embarrassed.
I am incapable of experiencing or causing shame.”

The sixth time I met Love
Anger rippled through me
and I asked
“How could you have taken from me?”
And Love replied
“I cannot take from you.
I give while asking for nothing in return
As I am unconditional.”

The seventh time I met Love
A deep sense of sadness pervaded me
and I asked
“How could you have fooled me and then used me?”
And Love replied rather gently and compassionately
“Do not mistake someone’s inability to love you
For the truth of who I am.”

And the eighth and final time I met Love
I greeted it as an old friend
Free from expectations, heartbreak, pain, shame and conditions
And Love embraced me and said
“Now you truly know me.”

Words by Tahlia Hunter

About you

Someone who just don't let women put their emotions in jeopardy.... MOSTLY WOMEN ARE BROKEN YET SOME UGLY FEELINGS WERE DEVELOPED FROM THE BAD THINGS YOU DID TO WOMEN..HAD GOOD WAYS OF HOW TO WIN OVER THEIR VURNERABLENESS..WHY HURT WOMEN ON PURPOSE WHEN ITS OK TO FALL OUT OF LOVE ???? ITS INEVITABLE....JUST HAVE TO ACCEPT THAT THINGS DO CHANGED ...I UNDERSTAND MEN CNT FOUGHT HARDER WHEN They ARE NOT SURE OF THEIR FEELINGS BUT WOULD IT BE NICE TO BE MAN ENOUGH??)???????STAND ON YOUR GROUND BY BEING TRUE EVEN IF ITS MEAN TO HURT SOMEONE ELSE'S FEELINGS BY YOUR HONESTY AND DONT LEAVE WOMEN HANGING ON THE AIR . SPECIALLY IF YOU ARE MUCH OLDER ......???? DON'T HURT SOMEONE BY JUST GETTING THEIR ATTENTION... WELL...DNT JUST POP UP .......ITS A KIDS WAY OF PLAYING..IF YOURE NOT WILLING TO GIVE YOURSELF ALL IN .... JUST BE MAN ENOUGH THATS OK........ DON'T LET ANOTHER OR SOMEONE SUFFER MAKE SURE YOU CAN HANDLE YOUR FEELINGS BEFORE GETTING STARTED

Personal info

Age:
48
Gender:
Female
Location:
Cagayan de Oro, Philippines
Appearance:
Average
5'3" (160cm) and average body type.
 
Wants children:
No
Smoking:
Non smoker
Drinking:
Light / social drinker
 
Relationship status:
Separated
Willing to relocate:
No
Education:
College - Some
Religion:
Christian - Catholic