Looking forward

  knackered is a new member (profile created 2d, 13h ago)

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Cagayan de Oro, Philippines  
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I'm here to

I'm here to meet guys minimum 63 years old for dating, friendship, serious relationship and networking.

About me

become so used to being on my own that the idea of opening up to love feels like a risk. It's a common path for many women, and it often comes from a place of self-protection..... ENIVETABLY....



•somehow become comfortable with MY OWN company. After a long time being alone, the quiet and peace of your own life can become very familiar and even safe????. thinking idea of a new relationship can feel like it might disrupt that hard-earned stability, so you pull back before things get too serious ..... so called just loving yourself....
Many of us been burned before. If past relationships ended in heartbreak, disappointment, or betrayal, it's natural to build walls. .....and not to rush things like thinking love happens overnight????? Which is impossible....You and me like anyone else might have learned that it's safer to not look for love, so you don't have to face the possibility of getting hurt again .Tend to stopped believing it's possible. Sometimes, after trying for a long time without success, we all get burned out. It can feel like you've lost the ability to fall in love, or that you don't believe someone could ever want you .
• You've learned to find peace alone. Many people find that when they stop actively seeking love and attention, they can finally enjoy the simple, quiet moments of their own life. It's a form of self-reliance that can feel incredibly freeing and peaceful .

It's a tough spot to be in, but it's also a sign of strength. You're protecting your peace, and that's a valid choice. As one creator put it, "Don't look for love. Let it find you while you're loving yourself" . It's about building your own peace and healing your heart, so when the right love does come along, you're ready to receive it......maybe ????

About you

Its is often the same for both men and women after too many heartbreaks: they want someone who feels safe, steady, and healing.

After being hurt, the desire shifts from just "love" to finding someone who can help you feel whole again. It's less about a specific list of traits and more about a feeling of security and trust.



• A Safe Place to Be Vulnerable: After building walls, the biggest need is for someone who makes you feel safe enough to let them down. This person understands your guarded nature and doesn't push you too hard, but patiently earns your trust over again protects my feelings" and "never makes me question my worth" .
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• Someone Who Heals, Not Just Loves: Many people who have been through a lot are looking for a partner who can help heal their wounds. This is the person who "loves you regardless of the imperfections" and helps you feel like you can be yourself again . They are the "man who walks into your life after the biggest heartbreak" and brings your spark back .
• Authenticity and Emotional Availability:

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