kimsondal • 45
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kimsondal
kimsondal • 45
Online hours ago

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Location

Tabanan (Bali), Indonesia

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Some photos of me

I'm here to

I'm here to meet guys 45 to 55 years old for serious relationship.

About me

Divorced. A Mother to one grown-up son, 25. He lives in another province w/ his mates, busy living his own life. And so am I.

Introvert, not invisible - which means I enjoy people very much..... individually..... occasionally... w/ sufficient notice. Lol

I cook. I eat. I work. repeat.

I love spicy food. If ur definition of spicy is “extra black pepper,” we come from different civilizations. It’s okay tho. 🙃 Love has survived worse.🥤

I’m a homebody, but I do enjoy going places. Just don’t put me in charge of directions. Without GPS, a 10-minute drive can become a missing-person case. 🙄

Fashion-wise, I’m very low maintenance. Sneakers and flip-flops have carried me through most major events in life. (👠 and I remain acquaintances.) Lol

Could I have been a supermodel? Absolutely. I only NEEDED to be taller, slimmer, longer-legged, differently proportioned and, technically, another person. 🤣

I have tattoos. Youth happened. Decisions were made. Evidence remains.

I speak my mind, appreciate logic, and have very little talent for pretending something makes sense when it doesn’t. That doesn't mean I bite. Well.... Depends what u say. 🧐

I don’t need perfect. God knows that would make me spectacularly unqualified too. 🙄
Just be single. Be emotionally available. Know why u’re here. Know how to communicate. Have a life of ur own and enough curiosity to want to know mine.

Long distance doesn’t scare me. Bad communication does. Distance has airplanes. Silence has no itinerary. 🤷‍♀️ .... And please have a sense of humor. Life is already serious enough without dating someone who requires subtitles for sarcasm.

Still reading??? 😳......

Hmmm.... Interesting. 🤔

Either u actually found me entertaining, or u've been on this app so long u've run out of profiles. Both are concerning.🤨

Oh hey, before u disappear into the ancient dating-app tradition of saying only “Hi”... Tell me ur zodiac sign. I’m not going to judge u. I’d just like the necessary paperwork before I do. lol

About you

Ok. Let's me see. 🧐

If ur first mission is getting my number, abort mission. 📵 Talk to me first. Make me curious. Tell me something I couldn't learn from ur passport.

Don’t give me a TED Talk about how interested u are. Show me! Words are free. Effort costs something. Consistency proves everything.

U should have ambition, not necessarily a Lamborghini, or six companies 🙄🤦‍♀️. Just have direction. Know what u're building, even if u're still building it.

Respect matters enormously to me. Boundaries too. Urs and mine.

Religion, faith, beliefs (whatever u name it): bring urs. I'll bring mine. We don't need identical answers to every question in the universe to sit at the same table. Just don't try to convert dinner into a theological hostage situation. 🤝

What actually gets my attention? 🤔.....

Intelligence. Kindness without performance. Humor. Effort without being chased for it. A man who can disagree without becoming disrespectful. Someone capable of saying what he means instead of expecting me to decode smoke signals from another continent.

Be masculine if that's who u are. Be soft when u feel soft. Be ridiculous sometimes. Have opinions. Challenge mine. Keep it real.

Ya, ya, ya I know. I know. I know!

After reading all this, that probably sounds like false advertising. Risk it. 🤷‍♀️

If u've made it this far, congratulations. 🥇 U have demonstrated patience, literacy and suspicious amounts of free time. Three qualities I can work with.

Bonus points if u're built for bear hugs, not butterfly squeezes. (IYKYK)

Now scroll back, and answer the zodiac question. There WILL be judgment. I lied earlier!

Personal info

Age:
45
Gender:
Female
Location:
Tabanan (Bali), Indonesia
 
Occupation:
Secret Agent Undercover (licensed to kill) Lol
 
Wants children:
No