Maybe you'll be my wife?
flajj711 is a new member (profile created 5d, 11h ago)
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I'm here to meet girls 26 to 32 years old for dating, friendship, serious relationship and networking.
About me
I'm calm, honest, reliable and loyal. I'm educated, a nature lover and I can appreciate the small things in life. I'm open-minded and able to compromise, though I do hold on to my principles.
Most importantly, I'm here for long term relationship, not for fun. I'm not here to look around or see how it goes, I'll stick with the lady who chooses me.
I'm not in a mad rush, but I'm definitely not looking for taking it slow either. I'm looking for someone who's ready to commit by choice, and forge ahead together with plan and purpose.
I like many things, but I'll list a few here:
- reading books and learning new things
- travelling and seeing new places. Still have a lot of places to visit, hopefully you'll be happy to join me.
- taking long walks and just spending time outdoors. I prefer summer though, winter can get cold and dark here but summer is gorgeous.
- having a good conversation or just chatting for fun. Can be deep talks or having a laugh, everything goes as long as there's a connection.
- watching movies and playing games
Things I dislike:
- lies and secrets
- words not matching actions
I'll tell you more when we chat, feel free to ask any questions.
About you
I hope you are kind and gentle woman, and I expect you to be single, honest, reliable and loyal. That's not too much to ask, right? =) I hope you also truly ready to commit to a serious relationship, and to work for it.
Messages alone are simply not good enough so you should be ready and willing to have regular video calls. Whatsapp is preferred but I'm open for other common apps too. I want to see who I'm talking with so if messages are the only thing you can do then I'm not for you. No exceptions, sorry.
Apologies for not being romantic and trying to sweep you off your feet here (I'm sure you get plenty of those guys too), but I want to understand your situation first and you to understand mine. I know what I'm looking for so I'll be direct and skip all that vagueness about what I'm after. There will not be mixed signals from me, I don't want to waste your time or mine =)
So, here are a few things which would make you a good match with me. It's a bit long read so try to hold on and have an open mind. Honestly, the bar I set should not be super high.
You want a serious relationship, and you're ready and willing to spend time and effort for it. I'll do the same, of course. I'll share my life with you and I expect the same from you.
You want to live in another country, and there's nothing holding you back if you get the opportunity to move. If you've never seen snow or northern lights, here's your chance. If you love eternal summer and paradise beaches more than anything, you probably want to skip me (there's a snowy winter here and the beaches are lousy).
You are family oriented and love kids. You do not have kids yet, but a family of your own is very high on your priority list. I'm not looking for someone who's unsure about this, or thinking "maybe someday".
You are single in the eyes of the law, and free to marry anytime if you wish so. I'm sorry, but I'm not planning to wait for a few years for you to get a divorce or an annulment first.
You are not afraid to try new things in life, and have a positive and open mind. This should not be too suprising since if you're willing to move abroad, you will very likely encounter a lot of new things and have to adapt a bit.
You are able to express what you think and feel. I fail at reading minds, you gotta tell me things =) The more you'll be able to share your mind, the smoother the life will be.
You like to work, but also love to chill and relax. All work and no fun makes life dull after all.
You understand that sharing the burden keeps the relationship healthy. I'm not looking for a maid, I'll do my share of all kinds of work at home. For finances I do not expect a 50/50 split, but I do not expect a 0/100 either.
You can manage a healthy balance in life and can take care of yourself. Sounds cryptic, but basically I hope you aim for some kind of a work, career or goals in life. You should have some hobbies or interests, it does not matter that much what as long it's something you enjoy. And I hope you can take care of your health, mind and body. You know, sleep well, eat healthy(ish), move around some =)
You enjoy chatting about pretty much anything when you feel like it. Sometimes silence is golden, and words are not needed, but sharing a life in silence is downright impossible.
You love the nature and a clean enviroment, and can appreciate the small things in everyday life. I don't hate cities, but I want a house with a proper yard and some nature close by. And I very much prefer to live in a relatively clean and tidy place.
You love to hold hands and are a bit (meaning "a lot") clingy. I can handle all of it, no worries =) This is much higher up on my list, but all the other things listed above are there to scare away people who are not for me.
Good job reading all the way here! If you feel the things on the list above describe you and what you want in life, then I think you should send me a message (but please check what I'm loo
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6'4" (192cm) and a few extra kg / pounds.