Vegan4 • 35

"The more you take - the less you have" Oogway

Location

Cebu City, Philippines
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A couple of my photos

I'm here to

I'm here to meet girls of any age for serious relationship.

About me

Edit: I am sorry if i dont answer any messages. It is not my intention to be rude or ignoring someone but i prefer to focus only on 1 conversation at a time. I dont like to end up with multible conversations. Also please dont text me if you have multible conversations going on - i dont need to be 1 of multible directions. Focus on the one you have interest in instead of spreading interest in 360 degree like a water sprinkler thanks.
( No problem with a relaxed conversation or just shareing views on a topic, but when it comes about dateing and showing interest - its fake to spread interest in multible directions.)

I never smoke, never drink or any other drugs. I am calm and would say open minded. Even if something is not my cup of tea, i dont really care what others do. I rather mind my own business.
I would only like a women which is 100% honest and never too "proud" or too "ashamed" to tell the truth. Being ok with myself and not taking the judgement of others too serious makes me free of worries. So it is easy to tell the truth and what i really think or who i am. I dont put up stories or other things to make myself seem more interesting or whatever - if people think i am boring ... no problem, let me be boring. Its my life, never worth to lie about it.
So a women with the same mindset is important.

About you

Loyality is the most important otherwise the bond of love isnt worth anything. Does not matter how pretty, how sweet or whatever the outside of a women is. Without loyality, there has never been love in the first place.

If someone is not loyal by nature, all effort and acts you do were wasted on this person.

Random question ...

If marriage came with no ring, no wedding, no wedding dress, no party, no photos, no social media and no financial safety net - would you still say yes?
Because for a lot of women, marriage isnt about love. Its about the show, its status, its what they think they are supposed to check on a list, its looking successful for everybody else to have the career, the marriage, the house, the car etc. pp.

But real commitment does not need an audience and real desire to spend your life with someone does not need a contract. when its love, you dont stay for the benefits - you stay for the person. And thats why so many relationships and marriages fail and fall apart as soon as things get hard. The benefits disappear an the effort suddenly goes away.

Marriage shouldnt be a lifestyl upgrade for the social media bio. It is meant to be a partnership between 2 people. 2 people growing together and holding a bond that withstands all difficulties of daily life. Chooseing each other, building together, growing together ... not useing each other as a insurance policie.

So, if all the benefits disappear right away - would you still want that marriage? That answer tells you a lot about love and commitment.