Im going to stand outside. So if anyone asks, im outstanding.

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I'm here to meet girls of any age for serious relationship.

About me

First of all, i am from Germany and i have never been anywhere else. But i picked location in PH because, i could imagine to relocate there later in life. A quiet life in the countryside, no more cold winters, eating fruit grown in our own garden ...
Maybe something like that.

I am very traditional when it comes to dating. I started dating very late in life, i never went to bars, clubs or whatever. I worked most of the time to build something up and once i felt ready, i started to date - i believe when i was the age of 23 maybe.
Soon i realized, dating is kind of horrible. A lot cheat, a lot lie - overall it is exhausting.
So i got tired and stopped dating for many years.
Focused on working and other things.
And when i mean i did not dated, i really mean it. For me, intimacy belongs only in a committed relationship – a relationship is a firm promise that you want to spend your lives together until the end (unless someone turns out to be dishonest, a cheat, or horrible in some sort etc.)

So when i find someone interesting, i prefer a calm and maybe even distanced get to known of each others opinions, life goals, dreams, views and values. Basically like a rational interview at the beginning.
Only when these things align and both feel that they want to be together for the long term is it a relationship, and only then should it become physically intimate.
In my view, a relationship isn’t a ‘test’ or a trial run either. You should only enter into a relationship if you already regard it as akin to marriage. I don’t need a temporary relationship that can be terminated annually like a contract.

Getting to known each other is perhaps much easier then a long text here.
So key points:
I never smoke, never drink or do any other drugs. I am very calm and i would say open minded. Even if something is not my cup of tea, i dont really care what others do. I rather mind my own business.
That is also a importent thing for me, i would only like a women which is 100% honest and never too "proud" or too "ashamed" to tell the truth. Being ok with myself and not taking the judgement of others too serious makes me free of worries. So it is easy to tell the truth and what i really think or who i am. I dont put up stories or other things to make myself seem more interesting or whatever - if people think i am boring ... no problem, let me be boring. Its my life, never worth to lie about it.

I never raised my hands or voice against weaker people, women or animals. Even when a dog bites my hand, i never raise it.
Only moments i have been physically was against other men if they were trying to fight.

So things i can promise is, that i never cheat and i never ever get loud or aggressive against a women.
No tattoos etc. ... yea at this point, if there are similarities, just ask your questions.

Ah, also a very important information. I am very sure, that i dont want kids. Not that i dislike kids but kids are a very important topic. In a world where nearly everybody cheat or most relationships ends with fight and bad intentions, i am really worried to risk, having a child in a relationship that maybe does not hold. I am old enough now to realize, that there are no guarantees in life. Only death and taxes are for sure ...
So it is in my view a better way to enjoy and master this life together with someone who has the same view and being there for each other as long as life lasts.

About you

A women who just know what she want to have for a life and does not change her opinion ever second day - loyal, kind with the same goals or expectations. Not a moody person or with bad attitude.
Being a couple which is not just in love, but also true friends to each other.

my photos are from today - no filter just me.

I think thats enough info for now. Thank you for reading.

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