Tom1973 • 51
Tom1973
Tom1973 • 51

update, I am taken, i wish all the people good luck here, thanks for all the nice chats we had here.

Hashtags

#CatLover#DogLover#nature#cooking

Location

  Frankfurt am Main, Germany  [ show map ]

Some photos of me

I'm here to

I'm here to meet girls 28 to 45 years old for dating, friendship, serious relationship and networking.

About me

Just ask me and find it out. I am a reserved, shy and calm guy with a much too good heart. Be patience with me and maybe it will work.








and yes i love music -old songs are always nice. :)


This Video here should help all of us to think more about nature and animals - we all can care more and we should.



A way how to change rude guys here in DIA :D

>>> David received a parrot for his birthday.
The parrot was fully grown with a bad attitude and worse vocabulary.
Every other word was an obscenity.
Those that weren’t expletives, were to say the least, rude.
David tried hard to change the bird’s attitude and was constantly saying polite words, playing soft music, anything he could think of. Nothing worked.
He yelled at the bird and the bird yelled back.
He shocked the bird and the bird just got more angry and more rude.
Finally, in a moment of desperation, David put the bird in the freezer, just for a few moments.
He heard the bird squawk and kick and scream-then suddenly, there was quiet.
David was frightened that he might have hurt the bird and quickly opened the freezer door.
The parrot calmly stepped out and said “I believe I may have offended you with my rude language and actions. I’ll endeavor at once to correct my behavior. I really am truly sorry and beg your forgiveness.”
David was astonished at the bird’s change in attitude and was about to ask what had made such a dramatic change when the parrot continued, “May I ask what did the chicken do?” <<< ;)

If you are looking for the perfect man - skip now, because i am not the perfect one. If you want a man who is simple, not rich, has sence of humor but still a guy with everything that a man is and has, than maybe i am the perfect man for you.


If you think that i prefer women who are super attractive, successful and look perfect. no you are wrong, i like the simple person more than the girl that think that she is the best of all. I prefer more the province girl before the girls from the city, cos when i go to the city, i am happy to be back in the province, no noice, no trouble, no stress at all.
You dont need to be educated, tall, slim or with make up. I dont care about it. If you have crossed eyes or pimples, dont worry, i love that too. Crossed eyes are cute, and pimples have a reason and their own charm in my eyes, cos i have them too. I also dont care if you are chubby, or if you think you have to hide your belly, dont worry, i like those curves too, and i like hiking ;) (look, thats the jokes of a man - thats also me). Be how you are and you are the most perfect woman ever.
Hope you dont expect too much from me. just try and see.

About you

And one thing to some ladies here. Stop looking for an ATM if you are looking for a true love. If you found your true love - you will be rich - you will not be alone with your problems anymore - a man who truly loves you will care about you and also about your kids and other problems. So get his heart and find true love and dont leave this way. I know not all men here are nice and true - so listen to your inner voice and follow your instinct.

i want to add something more - many people asked me here about Whats App or other social media Apps beside this one. Here is my answer and explaination why i dont hav e or need that. maybe you will understand it - maybe not:

My father passed away im March 2020, from this time on, my life has changed completely, It was a shock, cos he was fit and still healthy. from one day to the other he was gone, that was the hardest time in my life, the moment that i have feared my whole life was there.
I stopped all kind of communication - I did not use social media or anything else since that time, i did not talk much to the people, i needed that time for myself, a long time of more than three years, i received peace.
I opened this app here in Dia and want to delete it, but now i am in some chats again who are really nice - i was here in this site years before and it was not always nice to talk here, cos some people are not real or maybe i just met those who are not serious at all. I dont know, i was careful and now, it seems that something has changed, maybe it is me who also changed. I talk here with people now, who are really nice, also matured enough for a good conversation. its nice to talk to someone again. I am not searching. i am just happy if i can talk and feel free and have peace in my life.

I hope i could give you an explaination of my situation, and maybe you get an imagination of who I am and why i am not more in social apps and so on. Not whats app no Facebook or anything else.

I did not use a cellphone since my dad passed away, i did not miss it a single day. I got so much more time for me, so much more sens in my life to focus on things who are really important to me. A cell phone is for the most of the people really everything in their daily routine and they believe that they cant survive without it. I always hear this from people when they ask me why i dont use a cellphone. My answer is a litttle bit ironic. - i am born in 1973 - i have no idea, how i could survive the first 30 years of my life with out a cellphone and without internetconnection.

the people who understand me - mostly elder people (not teenagers) just look at me and start to think about their youth back, and i think they are surprised of their own behavior about cellphones and social media. i dont want to teach other people if that is good or not. it is their choice.i dont need that anymore. a cellphone is nothing bad, you can call for help, talk with friends and family no matter how far away they are, and you can take pictures with a phone. thats great and really good. But its crazy to see that for exaplme a group of people are sitting in the same room, all are silent , noone is talking, and they all just stare on their cellphone screens - i am sure you also saw situations like this in your own enviroment - or in a bus or a train or somewhere else -right?

:) I dont need that - but of course if others are happy with this - please do it. :D

Personal info

Age:
51
Gender:
Male
Location:
Frankfurt am Main, Germany
Appearance:
Below Average
6'2" (188cm) and average body type.
 
Has children:
Yes (Doesn't live with)
Wants children:
Yes
Smoking:
Non smoker
Drinking:
Rarely drinks
 
Relationship status:
Taken
Religion:
Christian - Protestant