Down to earth and not too needy
Location
Colchester (England), United Kingdom
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I'm here to meet girls 25 to 40 years old for dating, friendship, serious relationship and networking.
About me
I'm Toby, and yes before you ask, I do own three Staffordshire Bull Terriers. They're lovely. They also take up most of the sofa.
I've lived in France, Spain, Portugal, Abu Dhabi, Dubai and Egypt, and travelled to Thailand and the Philippines. I'm not done either. The world's too good to stop at that list.
For work I'm a tech consultant, which sounds dull but basically means I'm professionally calm in a crisis, which carries over nicely into real life too.
When I'm not at a desk I'm usually at a gig, at the theatre (big fan of musicals and comedies, zero apologies), in my workshop building something out of wood, or in the garden being supervised by four dogs who have very strong opinions about where I should be digging.
I lift weights, I travel a lot, I laugh easily and I genuinely cannot stand unnecessary drama. Life's too short and the sofa's already too crowded.
Never married, no kids, and at 50 I'm not pretending either of those things doesn't matter to me. They do. Looking for someone real, who wants something real.
If that sounds like your kind of chaos-free chaos, drop me a message.
About you
Probably late 20s to mid 40s, warm, funny and confident without being high maintenance. Someone who loves travel, not just tolerates it, and is genuinely open to building a life in London. You don't need to share all my hobbies but you should have your own and actually do them.
You need to be okay with dogs. Three of them. On the sofa.
Calm is important to me. I'm not looking for someone to keep life exciting through chaos. I'd rather laugh a lot, travel well, and actually enjoy each other's company on a quiet Tuesday as much as a big night out.
I want marriage and kids and I'm not embarrassed to say that at 50. So if you're looking for something real and you're in the same headspace, that's who I'm here for.
Personal info
5'11" (180cm) and average body type.
