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I'm here to meet girls from 30 to 40 years old for serious relationship.
I am a friendly man who has the ability to make people around me smile and feel comfortable. I've been raised by a true Old Time Gentleman so I'm always nice and polite: but therefore I also simply won't tolerate rude or arrogant people around me.
I looove good conversations and reading. Even though I do like to try new things and I'm really curious about different people and cultures I'm not very... adventurous. So you won't find me doing anything crazy spontaneously. Sorry! To make things worse(!) I'm also a bit of a house mouse: I don't need big parties or much excitement around me. For me it's quite enough if I can visit new restaurants, galleries, movies - or go to a tango lesson. A vacation for me might be just a long weekend at my parents´ summer cabin chopping wood and picking up blueberries in the forest.
Furthermore I'm quite calm I think? Well I might occasionally get passionate about things I find important - and heated conversations can be of great fun! Still you won't ever see me getting "crazy mad" or intolerably moody. Maybe. Uhum.
I'm highly educated, own my own apartment, am musically gifted and have a strong background in sports: but I will never ever be rich (in Finnish standards) okay? Fortunately I'm financially secured for the rest of my life. And free as a bird.
Hmm. I do sound a bit... boring, right? True!! But yet I can always make you smile...
1) Smart, clever, small(ish), quite fluent in English, no more than 1 child please? Does that sound blunt? My apologies. *blushing*
2) I'm looking for an equal partner and I can cook and clean for myself. So if I needed a personal housemaid I'd hire one not marry one, thank you?
3) I prefer women who are not only working but also not automatically aiming to become housewives after marriage. I respect independent women who have their own social environment and hobbies. In short: women who value their life outside home too. Aaaand this has very little to do with financial matters.