Splenditenens81, 37
Last online: 2d, 15h ago
Splenditenens81, 37
Last online: 2d, 15h ago

Want to feel what is love... but can settle for less :)


  Singapore  [ show map ]

A couple of my photos

I'm here to

I'm here to meet girls from 18 to 33 years old for dating, friendship, romance and serious relationship.

About me

I am from Italy but have been living abroad for long time, 7 countries so far. I am based in Paris but now travelling in Indonesia.

I am multi-talented. I got a PhD at the age of 29, published 2 books, travelled to more than 40 countries and counting, can speak 6 languages (termasuk bahasa indonesia), I am a divemaster and underwater photographer, can paint and draw, can sing (love karaoke lol), etc. I enjoy life. I love to travel, discover new places, people and culture.

I'm a junior professor, teaching and researching Indian and Indonesian history, literature and philosophy.

If u think I'm arrogant, no problem, peace :)

"Something changes the moment you decide you’ve found a person you are ready to reveal parts of your soul to. Something stands out and makes the moment unique. A profound multidimensional clarity resembling a piece of carefully gathered stardust; As if you are whispering “finally” and your eyes fill with light and spontaneity. As if you do not care whether your heart will melt or crumble in the process because your brief courage undoes your tremendous fear of disbelief. You live for these moments; For you are, maybe for one second or more, sweetly forced to surrender yourself to unconditional intimacy. A moment of psychological reward smashing all self-imposed disciplines founded on terror. This is all you need."
~ Anais Nin

"I am one of the searchers. There are, I believe, millions of us. We are not unhappy, but neither are we really content. We continue to explore life, hoping to uncover its ultimate secret. We continue to explore ourselves, hoping to understand. We like to walk along the beach, we are drawn by the ocean, taken by its power, its unceasing motion, its mystery and unspeakable beauty. We like forests and mountains, deserts and hidden rivers, and the lonely cities as well. Our sadness is as much a part of our lives as is our laughter. To share our sadness with one we love is perhaps as great a joy as we can know - unless it be to share our laughter.
We searchers are ambitious only for life itself, for everything beautiful it can provide. Most of all we love and want to be loved. We want to live in a relationship that will not impede our wandering, nor prevent our search, nor lock us in prison walls; that will take us for what little we have to give. We do not want to prove ourselves to another or compete for love.

For wanderers, dreamers, and lovers, for lonely men and women who dare to ask of life everything good and beautiful. It is for those who are too gentle to live among wolves."
— James Kavanaugh

My life had become weariness. It had wandered in a maze of unhappiness that led to renunciation and nothingness; it was bitter with the salt of all human things; yet it had laid up riches, riches to be proud of. It had been for all its wretchedness a princely life. Let the little way to death be as it might, the kernel of this life of mine was noble. It had purpose and character and turned not on trifles, but on the stars.
—Hermann Hesse, Steppenwolf

About you

The right girl to enjoy life together :)

'without love it is impossible to live, and in fact I do not live'

I am interested in establishing a deep or in any event interesting connection with a member of the opposite gender. Ideally, she would be:

-not only looking to be entertained but also active and engaging
-can sustain an intellectual or interesting conversation
-beautiful, charming and feminine
-independent and strong-willed yet with moral values

I doubt she exists.

Personal info

Caucasian (White), 5'7" (170cm), 137lbs (62kg), hazel eyes and black hair.

University - Graduated
Christian - Catholic

Relationship status:
Has children:
Wants children:
Willing to relocate:
Non smoker
Rarely drinks