Toronto, Canada [ show map ]
I'm here to meet girls 43 to 60 years old for dating and friendship.
UPDATED! Please read before you attempt to contact me!
It doesn't matter how much of a description I try to give, so much more is said and understood in a look, by a word, a touch, a smile, a first impression. I don't have a list to tell what I am like or what I am looking for. Sometimes it is just a mutual feeling or a connection that does it. I give respect and considerations to others because that is how I am. People who do the same will easily understand me.
Just a normal person who would like to have a genuine and reliable friend. I am somewhat old fashion in some ways, so I tend not to boast or brag. I believe in being honest, frank and polite. I am not nearly as perfect as some people are inclined to think. I do have my share of faults and blemishes, but I do live decently and uphold what is right. I disliked being taken for granted - I really detest this! Life is too short to live unhappily each day. Someone told me that as we grow older, it is better to be happy that perfect. This is indeed a wonderful observation.
I would like to meet a non judgemental, kind, gracious, calm, thoughtful woman who is looking forward to communicate with someone of a different culture. I prefer women who like to spend time to know someone before moving on. Simply coming here to chat with many and to make many friends is not what I like. Too many friends means less time for knowing anyone well. There is only 24 hours in a day! My habit is to try with one person at a time. If it does not work, then we move on. I am not here to be just a name or a number. In other words, I am not collecting friends. Serious people behave seriously!
Many here say it is hard to find someone who is true, but is it really hard? In my experince, honest people find honest people. If you chat with more than one person at a time and say you are only talking to me, that is not honest. One of the biggest hurdles or problem here is lying. How can someone trust and build a relationship with someone who lies and chats with more than one person at the same time?
Another problem here is the person who says she is looking for 1 man to be a partner but she keeps on collecting and making friends with several men. Think about that for a minute. A serious person reads a profile first. She then decides if she likes what she reads. If she likes the profile, then she makes contact and try to know the person. Who knows, maybe she will be lucky. If she finds that she does not like the person or if she finds that they have nothing in common, it is perfectly ok to end the chat in a friendly way. She can then look for a new chatmates. This is normal. In my humble opinion, what is NOT good is to have several chatmates at the same time. That is like meeting several men or women on the street and trying to court or entertain all of them at the same time. Surely, this behaviour is not serious and not respectful. It is actually disrespecting each of the chatmates.
On the other hand, if the person just wants to have several friends and nothing more, then it is ok to have as many friends as he or she wishes. This is just my opinion. Others are free to disagree.