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I'm here to meet girls 26 to 45 years old for dating and serious relationship.

About me

I'm from America, living and working in China. I try my best to live a "colorful" life. I love adventure, travel, and soaking up new experiences. I'm no bad boy. But I can be a crazy, silly, fun kind of dork. I love movies, playing video games that kind of stuff too. Living an ordinary life is a matter of perspective. I'm not conservative, and I am honest with myself and the way things are. I've got flaws like everyone else.

I know the reality of my situation considering that most people I talk with are hundreds to thousands of miles away. So I'm open to the idea of something that begins long distance. I also know that more often than not you can talk with someone but after a few messages, it suddenly stops or they never respond at all. But I still am not afraid to take a chance to find that real connection with someone. I don't know how often places like these really works, but it doesn't hurt for me to try to see if something real can happen.

Since the pandemic started, have your reasons being on here changed? With the virus and quarantine and all the craziness amplified worldwide, why be on here? Are you looking for something serious? Kill time? Just looking to add someone to other social media?

I'm a light sleeper, so I usually stay up late and get up early. I know it may not be healthy I guess. But I have a lot of energy. I love fireworks, roller coasters, and essentially being active outdoors with the right person. I can be pretty active especially on vacations. I love to explore new places and hike around places and stuff. I drink at parties, but drinking isn't a daily habit for me. I can do a lot in doors but I can have just as much outdoors depending who I'm with. But I don't do the whole bar club scene every night. I'm cool with that once in a while, but again, I'm a dork that would rather play games, watch movies, explore cities, sandboarding, bungee or climb mountains to see some old temples. I'm either too much or not good enough. It is what it is. But I'll still be myself.

About you

First thing's first, I won't give out my number or anything like that until I get to know you on here and we both feel comfortable enough to take things outside of DIA. It's a waste of my time to add someone then those girls ghost you. Let's make a connection on here, and if it's good then lets take that connection elsewhere eventually.

I know what I want and what I don't want. I don't like double standards. If I'm in a serious relationship then I don't like to be constantly tested to see if my feelings or love is real. I don't go for girls that are too religious. There's nothing against it, it's just not my ideal kind of girl.

If you're looking for friends online, then I'm not the guy for you. I have no interest in online friendships. It's not real enough for me. If you're a student that's nowhere near finishing school, then I'm not the guy for you. It's all good that you're pursuing your goals, but it also means usually you don't have time for relationships or can't afford to travel overseas. If a relationship is going to start long distance it takes both people to make the effort for it to grow into something forever. I'm not looking for a holiday girlfriend. So it can't just be me spending the money to fly over to your country. I would like to find someone similar to me at least. I want someone that wants to share enjoying life together and not watch me enjoy life by myself.

I don't want to waste anybody's time, so I don't play mind games. That's why I'm not afraid to say that if you want children in your future, then I can't be with you. I have no interest in having children. One girl is all I need and want.

Now, usually the guy has to send the first message. I've heard all the horror stories of saying, "hi" "hello" "how are you?", so I will try to put a little more effort to catch your attention. But since there's no guarantee of a response, I'm not going to jump through hoops on my first message. I'm happy to show you that I'm a real person, but it's a two way street. For every message that follows after the first one, my words become more detailed as this profile. You gotta put some effort too if you want to know more about me other than "hi", "hello", "how are you?"

If you're looking for the kind of person to be with on your best days and worst, marriage that kind of stuff, then yeah I'm all for it. But I'm not looking to ever have a kids. It is what it is. But at least you know I'm honest. I am the affectionate type.

I also know that distance can be a problem. I'm not afraid to go for it if the connection is real and that romance and possibly more could happen.

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