Christian Gentleman Living & Working in Cebu

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Scientist4Sweetie is a new member (profile created 1d, 16h ago)

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Cebu City, Philippines
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I'm here to meet girls 18 to 32 years old for dating, friendship, serious relationship and networking.

About me

I'm a Christian man. That means if we are on a dating site it's because we are looking for true love with one woman for the rest of our lives and trying to find a really good one for it because we can only have one. Christians join dating sites to find a life partner not to find a ‘fun time’.

I deleted my profile because I don't like dating, then realized I need to calm down and get through this & learn how to navigate this.

Christians don't womanize, they don't lie, flirt with others behind their girl, don’t cheat, nor steal nor take advantage of people. Christians do things through friendship in general.

I'm a very loving, sweet, kind, caring, doting, romantic, affectionate, attentive, concerned partner who loves to take care of my girl and I love to make her feel loved, secure, special, valuable, honored, respected, helped (teaching, coaching, encouraging, cheering on, with her responsible independent ‘goals digger’ life) & so she knows that she has a real partner in life that completely has her back & best interests in mind all the time. Just like it's supposed to be, as good as I can do so. It’s the role of a Christian husband for a Christian real wife.

I'm building my company & business in Cebu and I only travel lightly for random business things in southeast Asia. I will now live in Cebu permanently. I don't live in ‘the west’ I have already lived in Asia for more than 15 years. Visa hunters should block me! If you don't want to live in the Philippines and are only looking to get out, block me now. I’m looking for someone who will be happy to be happily married with a foreigner in the Philippines for the rest of your life and proud to be together, not afraid to be seen with her American husband.

I'm a single widow with no kids and have been completely single for 3.5 years as in I haven't even been on a date in this long either. Christians are honorable people. We don’t run around from here to there. I have experience, and know what I want, and trying to find it. I won’t mess someone around and won’t accept any games at all.

I’m 50% super professional and serious about all things in life, wise, then 50% young & playful, & will chase you & be silly with you. I love juvenile humor & being responsibly wild & humor & laughing & doing as many silly things as we can get away with doing.

I don't smoke, rarely drink, I don’t take any substances. I prefer natural health also, not pharmacies. I try to go to the gym often & try to stay in lean handsome shape both for me and also to give to a future partner. We should give to each other a fit partner and it's a very serious sin to be sloth, gluttony, and to not give your body to God as a Temple and it's a sin to not do your fasting and thus to stay thin to represent a good partner, couple, and Godly couple and marriage to others and glorify God. Also it's better for success in all things. A woman should also respect her husband and give him what all men want, a thin, fit, beautiful wife!

I'm a loyal, faithful guy, who is independent, secure, very responsible. I'm self employed & successful. I'm a highly educated and experienced, world travelled man and a professional and classy type. I don't hang out in regular 'tourist traps', expat bars, girly bars, or with womanizing men. I don't hang around with corrupt people at all in fact. I like to go to church, run outside, go to the seaside often, go to gym, study, go to conferences and seminars or host them. I would rather be completely alone with God than around corrupt people or in bars. I would much rather be drinking a nice wine with my sweetheart at a romantic place together just us or some other friend or friends.

My woman always meant the world to me, but females rarely give back the same level of love no matter what you do for them or how much you love them and are committed to them. When a man builds her up she often then just devalues him as her head swells from it, and she betray-steps you

About you

I'm looking for a Single, skinny, fit, attractive female, with no kids, who is cute, honest, honorable, and is Christian living. I'm looking for someone who is actually interested in who the man is, who the person actually is, what's in his heart, mind, values, life. I only want a girl looking for true love forever. Anyone asking for dough is a 100% pass for me.

I need a 4’11-5’2, dedicated to being fit, sweetheart girl with a great smile, who will never accept herself to be overweight, nor can accept her partner having anything less than the best from her efforts. I won’t accept it in myself either & will re-start my efforts if need to. I do fasting.

I'm looking for forever marriage with a high quality, high standard Christian female.

I'm also open to making friends with good quality honorable people.

My girl can not be moody, b*tchy, violent, angry, abusive, can not rage, call names, run down her man, lie, cheat, play mind games, turn off the phone and vanish, I can not do well with very selfish, self centered, narcissistic, materialistic females, I won’t even bother with these types.

I was cheated before so I need absolute security and safety from someone and someone completely secure and mature to actually give full security and earn trust all the time to her man, not just demand it like a fraud hiding everything from her man. I give 100% security to my woman, and she can check on me all the time and is welcome to live in total security! I'm the most honest and trustworthy person you ever met, but I'm not a fool, carpet, doormat, or punching bag, nor ATM machine retard or scammer mark! Don't even try it, you will waste your time! I'm wise to every scam there is now and heard about every one many times that are done now. Don't try!

I've never hit a woman, but I'm not going to stand being abused any more for even 5 minutes either. I will cancel everything and break up if being abused by someone. I endured way too much of this in life already, enough is enough. Never again!

I am also not going to be used for land and houses and loans. I am not adopting anyone's relatives either, they are not my children dependents. If they want dough from me in the future they can sell all that they have in a pawn shop. I am not a pawn shop, bank, or government donation center. I will get citizenship myself to the Phils and buy my own land when I have it at that time. I will not mix the two with relationship and marriage and will be 10x more wise and cautious & responsible than other guys out there.

I am more conservative and would ultimately like my woman to work for me/us at the right time instead of another boss but I respect the risks to the woman's job and career so will be very careful and cautious about all of these things. Some times people think it's the right one, and then out come 1000 secrets and lies from the girl, problems from her family or that they are making, using her, using the man, and so on, and it will end, and how will she get another job? It will be hard for her, so, this must be maturely addressed, all of it, from early on. Everyone must be mature enough to face all the scammers both on the female side and the foreigner's side as well. I am fully understanding to the risks females have, and I expect someone to be mature enough to be understanding to the Christian man's needs as well.

I need someone responsible for her actions, considerate, caring, thoughtful, responsible and mature. She can act like a kid 50% of the time and be playful, that's wonderful, but, when it comes to serious matters she better not mess around and better let me handle my business and not create problems for me, but help me if I need help. Whether it's understanding, translation, finding something, or just an ear, a man needs the right kind of support from his woman, and needs her unending faithfulness and loyalty, emotional support and cheering him on and lifting him up. Don't break your Christian man, boost him up