Seeking intimacy and intensity with a super fun "partner in crime"
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Grand Rapids (MI), United States [ show map ]
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I'm here to meet girls of any age for dating, friendship, serious relationship and networking.
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*** Update February 2018 *** I've decided to take a break from my search for now. I wish everybody well on their search. If I can answer any specific questions about how American men in general may act, or what is typcial, please feel free to ask.
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51 year old American, divorced, enjoys connecting with Asian women. I have traveled to Dubai, Manila, and Europe to spend quality time with my lady friends over the past several years. In communicating, I like to be direct, honest, candid, and compassionate. While I have many good qualities, I'm the first to admit I have many imperfections. Where possible, I'll try to underpromise, then overdeliver (for example, my hair is really salt and pepper, with a lot of brown, but I put grey, since there's plenty of that, and more every year -- every picture here is from September 2017 or more recent).
Utlimately, I would like to meet the right partner, who is also sincere and committed, travel together for a while, then settle down somewhere we pick together (near Toronto Canada is on my short list), and have beautiful multi-cultural children together.
About you
Clearly someone who is comfortable and likes dating someone older, and portlier, as she will probably need to be in her late 20s to mid 30s if we are to have children together. Then again, to be candid, I'm starting to wonder if I really want to be a late-in-life Dad .... let's say open to discussion -- that seems like the fairest assessment.
Please note that while I have great respect for all the single Moms out there, being a step-dad is not my best role. I've tried dating women twice who have kids, and unless their Dad and his family is 99% out of the picture, and your child(ren) are super charming and well behaved, we probably won't have a good fit.
I like someone fun, sassy, sincere, spiritual (preferrably Catholic), likes to travel, good sense of humor, and very affectionate.
Things I like to do more than average, in no particular order --> travel (including coming to actually visit you, in real life), lounge in bookstores, drink coffee (with lots of cream and sweetener), sniff out scams (there's easier marks -- I ask too many questions), read, play card and board games, go to live theatre, create Excel spreadsheets, write, visit casinos, attend church, go to confession, public speaking / making presentations, text, online chat, enjoy quiet reflection time and a lot of personal space (that's what you get from being an only kid raised by older parents), kiss (plus most everything that goes with that), going out to eat at a variety of restaurants, listen to your dreams and figure out how we can achieve our goals together.
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5'6" (168cm) and big & beautiful.