I control the water levels. Still working on controlling my bad jokes.
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Appleton (WI), United States
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I'm here to meet girls 18 to 60 years old for dating, friendship, serious relationship and networking.
About me
I run water operations for nine dams. Mostly that means keeping the water level right for everyone who wants it different (kayakers, farmers, property owners, you name it). 27 years into a career built on keeping things from falling apart.
I live simple. No bars, no partying. I get more out of a quiet evening than a loud one. Takes me a minute to warm up, but once I do, I'll make you laugh more than you'd expect. I've spent a lot of years on my own, and I like what that's built in me: I know exactly who I am, what I want, and what I won't put up with. I say what I mean, and when I care about someone, I show up with no half measures.
I take things slow and let them prove themselves rather than promising anything upfront. I'm not chasing constant contact or daily video calls to feel secure in something. I'd rather build it for real, at a pace that's honest. What I want is someone who's got her own full life, the way I've got mine, so that when we come together it's because we want to, not because either of us is filling a gap.
Looking for something real, not a fling — and no interest in games or drama. Friendship first, see where it goes from there.
About you
I'm looking for an honest, faithful woman. Someone whose word means something and who doesn't need games to feel interesting. Someone who can laugh easily and doesn't take herself too seriously, but who's also serious about building something real when it counts.
I want someone who has her own full life, friends, interests, goals. Not someone looking for a person to fill a gap. I'd rather come together because we both want to, not because either of us needs to. Independent, but still all-in when she cares about someone.
I'm looking for a real relationship, not a fling. Someone open to it going the distance, potentially even building a family together down the road. Simple living suits me; I'm not chasing a party lifestyle and I'm not looking for someone who is.
If that sounds like you, say hello and ask me something. I'd rather answer a real question than guess what's on your mind.
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5'9" (174cm) and average body type.