LOOKING FOR SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP/GF ! (REAL GIRL ONLY) WITH POSSIBLE MARRIAGE
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Itingen, Switzerland [ show map ]
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I'm here to meet girls of any age for dating, romance, marriage, serious relationship and more.
About me
I'm looking for serious relationship leading to marriage. But also open minded who knows 🙂
Also kinda naughty 🔥 in relationship. Sorry but while I respect "3rd gender" like Ladyboy etc., I can't have relationship with you. Real girl only since birth, I am sorry.
Chubby / fat 💪
Simple guy, love travel, thalassophile and missing it in Swiss (lakes / rivers only). Night type wake up very late if no work. Gadgets lover. Quite lazy but work a lot 
Never married / no kids but open to have 🙂
Would like to relocate to paradise, but I know I have to be careful and not ignore reality and the risks 🌊 🌴🌅
Long version for those who are interested to know more:
Please chat me directly, and if it's not possible (example i am busy/work/sleep) please dont forget to send me email.
You can call me Beni or Ben on example 😎
RELATIONSHIP STATUS:
I am single, never married, no kids. When i am in serious, successful relationship I will deactivate/delete this profile, or write I'm taken.
BASICS ABOUT ME: People say I'm very simple guy, relaxed, easy going, good to talk with, sense of humour, humble, enjoyable, open-minded, sometime curious, generous and responsible , faithful and loyal. I can be very talk-active, but also very silent or thoughtful it really depends on the situation. I think mostly I'm more the silent type, i believe in good feelings, I like to be relaxed and positive 🙂
While i was raised as a Christian, I slowly changed to Agnostic Atheist, means I dont believe in any kind of Religion / God(s) (I find it very unlikely to be true, there is no evidence for it), but I dont exclude the possibility that a God / Gods exists. Clearly the burden of proof is on the side of the people who are religious and claim certain "truths". Just so you know. Perhaps its related to my endless search for "truth" which I could not find (but was interesting to learn about different religions), and my scientific mindset. Anyway I dont mind others religions as long it doesn't influence directly our relationship / Marriage in a negative way (avoiding freedom), and as long we feel comfortable together.
APPEARANCE:
I am chubby guy, so if you like slim guys I'm not the right one People say I'm cute handsome guy My looks and dress code is casual, I dont go with the latest fashion trends But I do like some special styles, open to learn about new Trends with your help 😋. I'm also adaptable about this... so if you want I wear other dress we can talk about it.
EDUCATION AND OCCUPATION:⚗🧪📟🖥
Senior Laboratory technician (Chemistry; currently R&D division). My job is about chemistry (Synthesis of pharmacy ingredients or for customer, Research and Development, etc.) I spent some of my time in the Laboratory.
FAMILY:
I have only 1 younger sister, so our family is small. I'm close to my parents. My father is swiss, worked as Dr. Chemist but more or less retired now. My mother is from England and House. This means i am double national (Switzerland/England ) and have 2 passports.
INTERESTS AND ACTIVITIES:🥽🎱⚗🧪🧬🔭📱💻🖥📷📉📊🛫🗺🏝🌊
I'm just simple guy... relaxing, stay at home, watch TV or going to movies, visit my parents, computer/video games offline and online, surf internet, chatting. I like listen and dance to Techno (Especially minimal, progressive, detroit, Drum & Base, jungle, rave, trance) but I also like metal, punk and any other refreshing/crazy sound hehe. I do also like some Rap and Hip-Hop... Other hobbies are Billiards and snooker. Actually i like to go out partying/clubbing, but I don't go often out alone.
I love travel, beaches, rain and nature (I really wish we have beach in Switzerland...) I was in several places in Southeast Asia, I also was in England long time ago.. Sometimes I wish, I had someone special at my side and we could travel the world. I can be very adventurous at
About you
#WHAT IM LOOKING FOR:
The main reason im here im looking for serious relationship that can lead to marriage. I AM ONLY INTERESTED IN "REAL FEMALE SINCE BIRTH". Ideal would be younger age than me (especially for married), and if possible at least 5'2 height (but im still open-minded to Girl who is less than 5'2 
Also you should have more pictures (PLS NO EDITED PICS) or online photo album or Facebook etc.
#FOR ALL NON-FEMALES:
Im not interested in GAY/LADYBOY/SHEMALE/ TRANSGENDER for serious relationship, sorry. Please respect that. Its not impossible to be friends, but understand im not here for finding friends. Messages may not be answered, or if offensive you will be blocked/ignored directly.
#FOR FEMALE WITH CHILDRENS:
You are also welcome to write me ! I am open minded to it. Lets see If we want relation, there will be questions from my side that we should talk then about the children, what it means for relationship and other questions.
#COMMUNICATION AND KNOWING EACH OTHER:
First you need to be 100% single, no BF (local or internet). ABOVE ALL FIRST IT NEEDS SUCCESSFUL AND REGULAR COMMUNICATION ONLINE OR THROUGH TXT/SMS/CALL ON CELLPHONE. YOU NEED TO BE READY TO MEET ME IN PERSON.
#FOR THE CONSERVATIVE AND VERY TRADITIONAL TYPE:
You should be independent and mature enough to make ur OWN decisions about whats right in our relationship and future. Without that, it will not be success and happy between us. I cant accept third party interference from Family, Parents etc. in our relationship (but of course i am open to hear any advice's, opinions etc.). 
#ABOUT ROMANCE AND INTIMACY:
It is very important for me, especially romance, sweet and caring. We should talk open about it (if needed) and where the limits are, and the wishes from each other. Please not i dont belive in a serious relationship without intimacy.
#I LIKE THE SEDUCTIVE AND NAUGHTY TYPE:
WOW were getting close to possible ideal match I like this type ! Anything is fine as long we are FAITHFUL EACH OTHER.
#ABOUT INTIMACY (MAKE LOVE) BEFORE MARRIED:
For me its very important and integrated/normal part in relationship. Please understand i like + need intimacy. If this is a problem for you: Maybe its still possible we can get happy and contended to each other until we are married. Question is, will you be able to make me happy and contended as Man without Intimacy (ask me if you don't know what i mean) ? Also its important you don't have negative thinking about this, coz i like it
#MAINTAINING SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP:
I hope you will like to be adventurous sometimes.. like travel (backpacker ?), like beaches and nature, or just going out and eat and drink and be happy and enjoy life ! Maybe you have Good idea ? Able to have very open and honest communication, talking about any topic.
#ABOUT MARRIAGE AND THE CONDITIONS:
You must be ready applying a visa to visit me in Switzerland for more bonding and enjoy life with me Open to meet my parents and show them you are serious with me. Hope i can make them happy soon... dont worry if we get this far, i will take care of the budget so you can visit me. This and a minimum of 1 longer stay from me in ur place/Country is needed before i can seriously think to get married. Also, i want a 🧾MARRIAGE CONTRACT / PRENUPTIAL AGREEMENT (separation of property) to get married (Remember: IT DOES NOT make a difference compared to a couple who has no contract in our life's as long we are happily married and love each other and grow old together. Also think it as fairness to each other).
#ABOUT CREATING FAMILY:
I am open to have kids But first i want to enjoy the time with my future GF/Wife before we have family. And i need to be ready for it in my mind. But i am responsible Guy, if we have Kids before planned, i am ready for it also and i do my best for our family
Benjamin
Personal info
5'9" (175cm) and a few extra kg / pounds.
