Per • 38
Per
Per • 38

No matter what other people say, you are awesome. Do never forget that.

Location

Zwickau, Germany  
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I'm here to

I'm here to meet girls 18 to 37 years old for serious relationship.

About me

I want to meet my future wife here hopefully.
I'm NOT looking for a "temporary girlfriend", a "gold digger" or anything like that. If you don't want to relocate to germany please skip me. :)

Good day to you, dear lady and welcome to my profile. I'm thankful for your visit.

I'm a guy from a small city in the eastern part of germany. Here I'm working as a nurse in the local hospital on a psychiatric station. Our clients are mostly people who have trouble with substance abuse (like alcohol or other drugs) and on the other hand, we do have to take care of elderly people who might be confused, demented or aggressive. Beeing a nurse means, I try to help people to regain their (mental, mostly) health or try to help them to achieve abstinence to the drugs they suffer an addiction to.
As I'm from europe, there is quit a timezone difference to asia, also i do work on shifts as a nurse. This means I might be online on weird times, but please, be noted, that if I do not answer, it's not meant as an offense.
In general I would say I'm a kind hearted guy. I try to be nice to everyone, as every person on this planet deserves it (but, hey, to be honest, it's hard to be nice to some people, but i try my best) to be treated with respect.
Furthermore I would say I'm not exactly dumb, so I'm interested in a lot of things like history, politics, video games, science in different fields. I like cultural aspects, I like to visit the theater and museums or art gallerys (more into the more classic art, less so into modern art ...). I love reading books as well, there are just so many books i still have to read and just never get to it.
I'm not the biggest movie watcher, but sometimes some series catch my attention and i watch them, i did like stuff like Game of Thrones (up to a certain point haha), The Expanse, Rick & Morty and other stuff. Just feel free to ask.
Also I'm not the biggest music expert. There is sometimes stuff I like, but it's usually not so much the modern pop stuff which is so popular. I'm more into some ambient music or orchestral music. For example I like "Chopin - Nocturne Op. 55 No. 1" or stuff like the "Final Fantasy XII Main Theme". Also "electro swing" is something i enjoy if i have to do the house chore haha.
But for more modern music, there might be stuff I like, i will just not know the name of it lol.
As you might have figured I like to play video games a lot, it just makes me happy. I do not yell at my computer, if i fail. I just enjoy the ride so to say.
My by a huge margin biggest weakness is my lazyness. I'm really horrible in that regard at times. Due to that I'm also somewhat chaotic.
Something else i want to add here, is that I'm a supportive person for my partner, at least I try to be. I'm a nurse after all, so helping others is just a given to me I guess.
Thank you for reading so far down :)

About you

First things first: No matter what, if you want to write me, do so. I will reply to any message in a humble way, at least I try to. I'm sure you are wonderful, special person and I will write with you. Just please, accept it, if I tell you, that we might not fit. That does not mean that you are bad, that just means I think we won't be happy together and I don't want to make you or me unhappy with pretending anything.

I'm here to find my future partner for the rest of my life. My brother found his wife here, she is from Manila and they married last year in august. I want that as well.
If I meet someone and we might come to the conclusion, that we like each other but it might not be the match for life, I'm not against a friendship. But the general plan is to find my future wife. :)

Okay then, It's time to finally tell you how I imagine you, right? :D
I guess the most important thing for me would be, that we can talk about basically anything and just can have a debate about every kind of topic for hours. That we will always have something to talk about with each other. That we never run out of words and topics. I want to talk with you when we're old, still. I don't want to loose the words to communicate with you at some point, like when the kids move out...
In that regard it would be awesome that you are interested in a lot of things or at least open minded.
I want to share all kind of experiences, like traveling to different countries and visit their cultural and historical centers. Visiting the theater, opera, theater, musicals, art gallerys.
You don't have to have visited any of those locations, but if you can imagine to do so, I would be glad to make your acquaintance.
It would be great if you read books and I'm also always happy if you are creative. :)
I would love if my wife would play video games as well or at least is open to try it, as it would be great to play stuff together.
If you do sports, that's great. I'm lazy, but hey, I would love to do sports together with my future wife. Dance course, martial arts club, just tell me :)
I want a wife who works as well. I'm not looking for a housemaid. If we both earn we can do more stuff together and ... you know... it does for sure sound boring, but can you imagine coming home to your loved one and just talk with him or her on how your day was? I know that sounds horribly boring and as exiting as wet toast, but trust me. That's worth so much.
I also want to mention, that I want to have children. So if you decide for yourself, that children are not for you, that's fine. But I might then not be the perfect match.

I want you to know, that even if you have nothing of the stuff I just mentioned I know that you are a great person nonetheless. I know you have to work hard, maybe you still study and don't have the time and the money for all kind of weird hobbies like we Europeans have. Maybe you have to support your family. Maybe you just find all the stuff i mentioned stupid, that does not make you a bad person. You are always free to write me nonetheless. I know you will have stuff, that makes you happy. Please share it with me.
There is so much more I want you to tell, but the number of letters is actually limited, so please write me any time




One last word,... If I ever tell you, that I think we might not match, I really don't want to hurt you with that. But I rather want to be honest. I don't want to make anyone sad, really. But I'm just one guy and I just want one woman. You are a wonderful human being nonetheless, I'm sure and you are special in your very own right. I might just not be the man who can make you as happy as you deserve.

Thank you so much for reading until the end, i applaud you for your patience and dedication. Thank you for being you and at any rate, i wish you a wonderful day and just the best of luck on your search for love. 😉

Personal info

Age:
38
Gender:
Male
Location:
Zwickau, Germany
Appearance:
Attractive
5'8" (173cm) and average body type.
 
Occupation:
Full time nurse & full time psychology student
 
Has children:
No
Wants children:
Yes
Smoking:
Non smoker
Drinking:
Non drinker
 
Relationship status:
Single
Willing to relocate:
No
Education:
College - Some
Religion:
Atheist