A great friendship may lead to something more.
read below first or I'll know if you didn't 🤣
Location
Adelaide, Australia
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I'm here to meet girls 24 to 47 years old for dating, friendship, serious relationship and networking.
About me
To save our time, I have prepared the manual for dating me 🤣
Don't get me wrong,
I'm looking for a friend ==} Marriage again but your gonna need a big heart, not to many responsibilities (like pets or young children that require your attention daily)
If your first message is Hi or how are you I probably won't respond. Ask me a question anything other that how am I. Don't bore me with small talk you want to learn about me what you want to know.?
Due to my work and lifestyle. I have a live in job for 21 days most the time but sometimes upto 28 days. With equal time off. Meaning I have nothing to worry about for the next 21 days
I'm at work 5-6 months the year. so during this time at work will be long distance. Most of the time in my time not at work I would spend time with you and spend it between where ever you live and where I live or meet somewhere and explore together.
Therefore
The most suited partner for me is
1. someone who can work remotely part time or full time.
2. someone who is qualified in Nursing/Doctor field/ aged care (easy to get casual contract work where I live)
3. Alternatively someone who can work to support themselves in the time apart. (own boss, own business that doesn't require you always there, contract work, affiliate marketing ect)
Also you must be ok with long flights. I fly alot and will probably book you on many also.
I am a widow. I was Happily married 8 years until my wife passed away suddenly overnight. While your worst nightmare is still probably cheating it might be hard for you to consider worse of death. There was no goodbye, there is no worry of my Ex's as this was the last 10 years of my life.
What I have come to learn is there is
5 kinds of people in the dating pool.
1.Completely new people to dating
2.people with negative feelings from breakup (cheating, growing apart, Normal things ect.) May have Trust issues
3. scammers (don't waste your time here)
4. Hidden intentions (looking for someone to support them, freelancers, short term ect)
5. Widows who have suffered from loss of there loved one.
As I'm in number 5. I have learnt that not everyone is willing to accept your happiness prior and not want to understand what it is like to loose your best friend and lover at the same time. Especially if you have only dealt with the other options. As their worst fear is someone cheating and can't comprehend even worse of death.
So if you want to talk with me you a need to ask yourself these questions first if your not a widow yourself. As this is my reality and there's no point talking for weeks to realise your not emotionally strong enough to date a widow.
1.If you were to walk in my house and see a wedding photo on the wall with another woman that is not you. Can you accept this or will it make you crazy and jellous? There is room for new photos of our life also.
2. While now it's time for me to open my heart to new love. I will continue to love her and her memory also. Are you able to handle this?
I'm ready, don't overthink it. but it's my reality, I can't change my past and she's not coming back.
3. I am open to talking about her and welcome you to ask questions. She helped make me who I am now. If the thought of me referring to her or sharing memories with her makes you uncomfortable or jellous, it's won't work. There maybe times I need time and for you to support my feelings. Loss sucks and I hope you never have to feel this.
4. Her family is still my family. My extended family and friends are also all close. We are all welcome to embracing your family also. So essentially you will get 3 new families along with me.
If cannot accept. Save your time. skip to next profile 😁 There's plenty more 🐠 in the sea.
If you got this far. Ask me a question, don't ask me how I am. I'm bored to answer how r u? those conversations go nowhere! I will dedicate time to you if I feel there's a connection. I will get bore
About you
Some one who is real
Someone who can write a meaningful message.
Someone who is compassionate and caring
Someone with selfworth
Someone who is kind to animals
Someone who is willing to learn to trust even if they feel broken now.
Someone who is not high maintenance.
Someone who values family but doesn't need a child from me.
I might be the hardest challenge of your life. It take 2 to make something special. Never try never know.
Ideally you have no children and don't want children. I don't want to raise a life, just enjoy my (our) life.
If you have children still ok. Ideally they are older 15+
or you don't have them full time
Personal info
5'11" (180cm) and average body type.
