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Your last boyfriend will hate me. Your mom will love me. And you? You will wonder where I've been ..
NewYorkCityBoy is a new member (profile created 3d, 1h ago)
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I'm here to meet girls 28 to 53 years old for dating, friendship, serious relationship, networking and more.
About me
Native New Yorker — so yeah, I’m direct, loyal, and allergic to bullshit. I’ve lived a hell of a life so far: been to Kabul on humanitarian work, helped the military cut fuel use, survived a few system beatdowns, and still found a way to rebuild.
I’ve got scars, stories, and opinions on pizza that I’ll defend like it’s family.
Looking for someone real. If you’ve been through some shit but still have heart? I’m in. If you want honesty, stability, and someone who gets the weight of it all — I’m your guy.
I'm ready to move the hell out of the United States, it's not the place everybody thinks it is.
No games. No filters. Just good conversation, a sharp mind, and maybe a little fire left to burn.
About you
Someone who’s lived enough to know the difference between attention and connection. I’m not looking for perfect — I’m looking for real. I'm not interested in you asking me to go slide over to Whatsapp before you even know my name or anything about me. Please, I'm way too smart for that shit.
You’ve got a kind heart, a sharp mind, and maybe a little scar tissue from life’s hits — but you still show up with humor, grace, and guts. You don’t need fixing, and neither do I. But maybe we can build something steady, soulful, and worth protecting. You've been burned by a local guy who promised you the world, got you pregnant and then ran away like a ladyboy, don't lose hope. Don't think you've lost your future. I believe if a guy falls in love with a girl and she has kids from the previous relationship. Possibly with a man who really wasn't a man because he would have stood up and married you. But regardless children are not an issue, the guy falls in love with a girl well that's the package. I'm real man takes her as she is, loves her for what she has and of course embraces her family and if she has children connect appropriately as a father
If you’re spiritual but grounded, soft but unafraid, and can handle sarcasm with a side of candlelight — we’ll get along just fine.