Let Us Be Good FOR Each Other and Good TO each other!
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Davenport (IA), United States
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I'm here to meet girls 45 to 61 years old for dating, friendship, serious relationship and networking.
About me
If I were to describe myself, I’d say I’m a calculated risk-taker — someone who listens to both his heart and his mind. I’m deeply spiritual and committed to living fully in the present moment. My focus is on mastering myself so that I can better serve others.
I would call myself a Stoic-Optimist: I believe that our greatest freedom is the ability to choose our response to whatever life brings. Every obstacle, challenge, or moment of pain can become an opportunity for transformation — and even for Agape — if we choose it consciously.
People often tell me that I’m driven, passionate, creative, intelligent, and wise — yet also sensitive and flexible. I’ve been described as having a strong work ethic and a deep sense of responsibility. But I think it’s always best for people to discover those things for themselves.
I spent ten years teaching and living in China and South Korea — experiences that shaped my worldview, strengthened my resilience, and deepened my appreciation for culture, language, and human connection.
✨ What’s Improved:
Smoothed long sentences for readability (important for translation apps).
Balanced philosophical tone with human warmth.
Placed your international experience at the end — a strong closer that grounds your ideals in real life.
Maintains your authentic “Philosopher-Monk / Stoic-Optimist” voice while making it flow like professional prose.
Would you like me to now produce a Chinese translation that conveys this same spirit — wise, reflective, humble, and gently inspiring — while still sounding natural and approachable for women like Judy, Lucy, or Isa?
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❤️ My Ideal Woman (Refined International Version)
If you want to know what my ideal woman is like, I can tell you. But please understand — I don’t expect anyone to be perfect.
I’m drawn to a woman whose true beauty comes from within — someone with strength, wisdom, and compassion. She has a sense of calling and purpose in her life, and she has already begun building a life where her deepest joy meets the world’s deepest needs.
She doesn’t seek a man to complete her or to define her worth. Instead, she’s ready to share her life openly and to build something meaningful together. I believe that the best relationships happen when two people rise above ego — when they both choose growth, love, and balance for themselves, for each other, and for the lives they touch.
She believes that Agape — unconditional, selfless love — is real and worth living for. I admire a woman who walks her own heroic journey with humility, courage, and quiet strength, who treats every day as part of her unfolding masterpiece.
To me, love is not about perfection — it’s about two people committed to transformation, service, and grace. And if you hear the same music that moves my heart, perhaps we’ll recognize something true in each other.
🎵 Here are a few songs that have always spoken deeply to me. Tell me if they speak to your heart as well:
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5'6" (168cm) and a few extra kg / pounds.