LOVE is the HONEY & ROMANCE is the BEEHIVE. Let me show you how to get the SWEET without the STING.
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Hi, I'm Lucho. I love Asia, I've been to Thailand twice and am planning a trip to another Asian country later this year, hopefully to meet the right woman wherever she might be— Philippines, Thailand, Vietnam, Indonesia, China—wherever. My job offers the flexibility to turn "someday" into "some month this year"— making a long-distance connection with me not a fantasy, but instead a near-future reality.
I speak three languages fluently and am particularly fond of Spanish written culture, which gives me a natural affinity towards the Phillipines—Latino people and Filipino people have so much in common. I can understand quite a bit of Chabacano thanks to its Spanish roots. I've lived across Europe, Latin America, and North America, visiting over a dozen countries. I'm a traditional man with a religious background (once considered Orthodox priesthood), but grounded and practical—faith should help us get through life, not keep us from living it.
Professionally, I've worked in chaplaincy, mental health, education, tech, sales, and robotics. I have heard a very diverse life experience. I am a creative guy, mostly engage in writing, and am trying to write a book of poetry in Spanish and English. My ideal relationship would be a simple happiness: holding and enjoying simple pleasures like watching movies, enjoying good food we cook together, and sharing our inner worlds.
I'm looking for a genuine, family-oriented woman who values loyalty—because my end goal is marriage and starting a family. I don't have a family of my own, so I'm ready to build a home full of warmth and laughter. If you want a devoted husband ready to meet in person, let's talk.
***[Disclaimer:] I know life is hard, and people are struggling... But if you are a person who is going to talk to me and then immediately start asking for money in the first few calls, then I don't think we should talk. I have no problem helping out a woman I am serious about, but I would have to ACTUALLY know her to do that. So if shaking guys down for money is what you are after from the get-go, rather than getting to know a man who could actually love you the way you need to be loved, then you've got things out of order and would be better off not talking to me.***
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I am passionate about building something real: a warm, peaceful inner world where both of us feel deeply loved, safe, chosen, and at home with each other. A heart is like a home — it should be warm, peaceful, loyal, and protected. The gate is not there to keep love out. It is there to keep chaos, games, and confusion from walking in. When I open that gate to you, it means I am serious about making you feel loved, safe, chosen, and at home with me.
I want a grounded, family-oriented woman who is serious about marriage, loyalty, monogamy, and building a peaceful life together. Faith matters to me — culturally Christian roots or a genuine openness to them — but beyond that I need mutual mindfulness: she thinks of me as much as I think of her. Quiet devotion. No scorekeeping. No drama.
Life already has enough hardship. What I want is a woman who brings peace into the home, warmth into the heart, and steadiness into love. For me, true depth lives in the small sacred things: cooking together, holding you and kissing your hand, a calm evening walk, closeness without chaos, and the quiet comfort of knowing we are on the same team.
I respect family, tradition, and culture, but I also believe a couple must protect the home they are building together. Outside voices should not be allowed to overwhelm the bond between husband and wife, or between suitor and fiancée. A relationship needs a front door, a lock, and a shared key — not because love is closed off, but because something precious deserves protection.
There is a Russian proverb: “Happiness loves silence.” I think that proverb is wise. I have seen too many good relationships damaged by involving people in things they never needed to be involved in. It is better to learn from the mistakes of others than to suffer through them ourselves. Let us do things right from the beginning: protect the peace, protect the bond, and protect the home we are building.
My non-negotiable is consistency. I value clear communication, presence, loyalty, and follow-through. If you want to know me, show up, be present, and communicate clearly. I value love over material things. The wealth I am after is simple: to love deeply, to be loved deeply, and to build a home where both people feel safe, desired, and chosen.
I want to make you feel loved, safe, and secure.
PS — Even if you have been stung before and perhaps have doubts about love, I promise you that you can still have honey without the beehive and its sting. Try with me and I will show you. I should know — I am a big bear of a man who would love to share the honey of the world with you. Honey is my favorite, just like Winnie-the-Pooh. 
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I am open to a woman who already has a child. If I step into the role of step father, that is a serious responsibility. I need to see dedication, presence, and investment in building us from the start. Stability matters greatly when a child is involved — a child deserves peace and consistency.
Drama, emotional games, tests, disappearing acts, or inconsistency have no place here. If you are asking a man to enter your life and your child’s life, your heart and intentions need to be steady from the beginning.
But if you are the right woman — steady and truly willing to build — I would not turn away. It would be a blessing to start a family with more than just two and give a future child a sibling from the start. When that foundation is there, I’m ready to step in fully and build a stable home for all of us.
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5'11" (181cm).