Cebu City, Philippines [ show map ]
I'm here to meet girls from 18 to 28 years old for dating, friendship, serious relationship and more.
Long, long ago, my thoughts were like yours. My life was not good - not good at all. My family and friends had lives like mine. It all seemed so hopeless and that could not change.
But even back then, I heard a voice in my heart. A tiny, quiet voice that softly whispered: “there should be more - more love, more status, more money, more excitement, more satisfaction, more power to help the people I love, more power to stop the things I hate, there has to be more.” Does your heart ever speak softly to you?
The tiny voice in my heart was not easy to hear. My thoughts were much louder. My brain kept shouting the reasons why not –“you don’t have money, don’t have an education, your family is poor, not born to the right family, don’t know the right people, it's not meant for you. . . . .” The reasons were endless, and constantly present, filling my thoughts. But even then the small gentle voice in my heart would not stop. It kept quietly saying: “you should have better, it should be more, God wants life to be more than just this, there must be a way to make this life more, there has to be more . . . . .”
That was long ago and far away. Now the dream is real, the dream is my life. And it has been for years - many, many years. I got the education I dreamed of, built success in business, did much to help good people, and stopped great evil. I have loved, I have laughed, I have lived my life fully, I have a wonderful home in the cold far north of America, and soon will have another in tropical Asia, I am happily divorced for many years, my ex-wife, her new husband, and I are good friends, we have raised our sweet boy-child into a good strong man, a man who is now creating his own good life, a son who will live long into the future -living, loving, laughing and making the world better.
My life has been wonderful beyond my greatest dreams. Why? Because I stopped. I stopped long enough to understand - to understand, to really understand reality. I learned what was true. I learned what was a lie. I learned what was important and what was not. I learned what worked in life and made life better. I learned what did not work, and what made life worse. No one taught me those things. No teacher existed. I had to learn it all. It took a long time - twelve years of dedicated, full time thought, study, prayer, meditation, hard work, research, experimentation, suffering and learning, until I was done. But now, I know. Now, I understand. Now the dream is real
It's 2017, I am sixty-six years old. I am healthy and active. There are good years left, but not too many. I know I am old, and won’t live forever. The end does not scare me. I’ve had a good life and god is my friend. But one thing concerns me, it concerns me greatly:
I don’t want that knowledge to die with me. That is why I am here in Date in Asia.
Only one thing is important: Are you like me? Do you have that dream? Are you filled with life energy? Are you healthy and strong? Are you slim and hard working? Can you be totally honest, with both me and yourself? Do you have faith in God? Can you learn what is real? Are you ready for change?
That is all that matters. I don’t care if you are rich or poor, I don’t care about the family you come from, I don’t care about the work you have done, I don’t care about the life you have lived, I don’t care about your self-doubts or your dark secrets. None of that matters. I don't care about your past. I care about your future.
I only care about the spirit within you, the life it deserves and your courage to find it.