Misusing ‘open‑minded’ to mask sexual permissiveness is Linguistic DISHONESTY🤮

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I'm here to meet guys 28 to 41 years old for dating, friendship and serious relationship.

About me

If you’ve read this, it means you’re more drawn to appearances than to intent. That exposes your own bias, not mine. Offended ? That’s simply your mind playing tricks on you 😉

https://voca.ro/13Ue02iNT8h6 - my voice clip
Let's cut the chase: 🚫
Showing your BRAIN/ INTELLIGENCE- VERY ATTRACTIVE 👍
If you're looking for 'MULTIPLE GIRLFRIENDS/ WIVES' - PLEASE SKIP MY PROFILE ⛔
I'm a ONE MAN WOMAN 👊.

Awareness for all:
In a relationship, if we ReMove sexuality, focus on characteristics like trust, respect, communication, empathy, and shared values. These traits help you understand what they want in a relationship.

Focusing on LONG-TERM goals instead of "temporary pleasures" is ESSENTIAL for building a strong and lasting connection.
Some USERS on this site DON'T KNOW what they've signed up for. Why waste time on "lustful acts" instead of Genuine Connections ? They just don't get it. How SaD.

God, when my Heart is disappointed, remind me that I cannot control everything.

Side note:
Please DON'T just write "Hi" or "Hello" or having an emoji to 7 words.
What will I do with that ? Please Make an effort, for God's sake. I'll do the same.
**Also, what's the POINT of getting these "likes" if none of you message me ? Am I that scary ? Never, I'm not High Maintenance, just aiming for High Standards.**
I'm quite particular about sharing my personal contacts; even my Close friends (2) only get my phone number after two years of being buddies (since technology was not booming at that time) !
This approach allows me to BUILD deep, meaningful connections and ensures that those who have my number are TrULy valued and TrUStED.
It adds a special milestone to our friendship, making the moment they finally get my number even more memorable.
And yes, we're old now but we build such strong foundation 22 years of being close Buddies ! True Friends are RARE !

It doesn't mean that you can only get my personal contacts after 2 years... No, it all depends on how we vibe and having stimulating conversations. Sometimes, silence can be just as meaningful as words.


Hello !
It took me hours to convince myself to sign up and
join this dating community.
Please be kind, as I'm already struggling with this
"tell me about yourself" part. I'm an INTROVERT (INTJ)
and a CAT Mom who loves both indoors and outdoors. When I'm inspired, I immediately grab my pencil/ brush and draw/ paint beautiful scenery.
I don't know why, but I just feel the urge to draw or paint.
Solitude is my Friend.

P.S.
If you're eager to know me, then message me.
If not, or just passing time, PLEASE SKIP and move along to another profile.
If you find me "pleasing to see" but without intentions, PLEASE SKIP MY PROFILE.
I DATE TO MARRY. I'm Not into months or 2 to 3 year relationship because, this isn't School.

A MAN commits to a WOMAN, while BOYS ditch them whenever they want, TREATING them like BUFFET OPTIONS 😉.
Courting means Marriage ("Boys" in 20th -21st century hate this phrase but Men in early more likely 19th century don't)

P.P.S.
My family forced me to create an account since I'm an introvert. Dating would be difficult for me due to my age and my preference for staying in. They thought virtual hangouts would be a great idea to get me involved. So, I valued their concerns very much.
I almost forgot ! I'm currently learning Mandarin, Japanese & German
I play Chess, Crossword and Scrabble too !
Wanna play Chess or Scrabble on Wordfeud ?

I enjoyed watching classic movies as well ! I couldn't get over loving Colt 🩵in the movie 3 Ninjas Kick Back (1994) ahehe
*I don't drink much caffeinated drinks🤭 and I'm allergic to Flowers*

And yes, I'm not getting any younger. I don't know about having kids. It might be difficult for me due to my age, as fertility rates are deteriorating.
Hmm I think "That's all" by Michael Bublé

About you

With Common Sense... Means BRAIN 🧠
Then the Heart Follows... Means SINCERITY 💎

You're a HAPPY PERSON (please stay happy... since I don't smile often), family- oriented, who speaks or knows mandarin, german, and japanese (native) but, all are welcomed, values correct spelling and complete words in messages...but most importantly, GENUINELY RESPECTFUL and responsible individuals...and who plays chess, crossword, and scrabble.
Or if I get a chance to find something worthwhile within you...
We could exchange ideas and knowledge about things that interest you or my field, as well as your field. Let's educate each other ! It'll be fun !

If I don't respond to your message/s, it's A CLEAR sign of being disinterested EFFECTIVELY. I find overly "flattering" or insincere language off- putting because it feels disingenuous and manipulative (ex: small talks👎 )
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If you're just looking to fill up your "Lonely Heart", my best advice for you: GROW UP

P.S.
PREFERABLY NON- SMOKER & NON- DRINKER/ RARELY DRINKS

P.P.S.
If you're a "MESSY" and "DISORGANIZED" person... WE WON'T/ WILL NEVER GET ALONG🤧

Please DON'T send me GROUP MESSAGES/ SEND TO ALL. Make an EFFORT to write personally. We're not teenagers... FIX YOUR GRAMMAR PLEASE.

**Then, I May INTRODUCE you to my folks. It'd be lovely to meet and know you personally with them ! Don't get intimidated, they're lovely people ! **

I might leave this site by the end of the month... I've had some crazy encounters, mostly bad. Some guys got really offended by my posts. But I've learned a lot from this community. I guess I'll be 'Unforgettable,' like the Nat King Cole song...


Thanks for reaching this point. Congrats and Hope for the Best.

FUNNY LINES from the sitcom Modern Family (S02E09):

"So Dumb guys go for Dumb girls, and Smart guys go for Dumb girls ? What do SMART girls get ?” “CATS, mostly.”
PRETTY ACCURATE tho 😀

**IF YOU FEEL OFFENDED OF WHAT YOU HAVE ENTIRELY READ, PLEASE MOVE ALONG TO ANOTHER PROFILE, THANKS**

**Guys laugh because I've never had a relationship. But I'm proud to be clean and not waste my life on immoralities. Experiencing those doesn't make you 'mighty'... God, what happened to these people ?**

*If you're here to COLLECT PHONE NUMBERS or ID's then F WORD for YOU 🙂*

**No generic messages please**

**My name is hidden in my bio. Solving it requires puzzle skills 🧩. If you can uncover it, I will be moved and appreciate truly your problem-solving mind. Good luck and happy solving 😸**

*IF YOU DON'T RESPECT MY VALUES, THEN YOU ARE NOT THE RIGHT ONE FOR ME*

**I KNOW MY WORTH, and I WON'T settle LESS than MY WORTH**

*Don't send me "random greetings or messages" just because the girls you recently talked to didn't respond.
I CAN'T STAND THAT KIND OF BEHAVIOR.*

*Before speaking or typing, make sure you’ve done your RESEARCH. I have ZERO TOLERANCE for REDUNDANCY*
*Just as I Suspected, despite guys being in their 40's, to 60's some still exhibit immaturity. I expected older individuals to have greater emotional and mental stability, but they've proven otherwise*

*IF YOUR INTENTION IS TO SWITCH TO OTHER APPS WITHOUT BUILDING A PROPER CONNECTION HERE, KINDLY SKIP MY PROFILE. I'M NOT DESPERATE*

*If you're a "PASSPORT GUY" /or "Fling thing"*😄 GET A LIFE

*Sometimes my Mouse SLIPS, and the accounts I've VISITED WERE JUST MISCLICKED.*

**If I choose to date you, I see you as someone I could spend my life with.**

*Whenever I call you 'friend', I begin to THINK I UNDERSTAND 🙂🤍 I see myself w/in your Eyes*
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*Voice or Video call ? Sure, as long as you're Genuinely Interested and a Pure Soul*

*I only have accounts on FB, Instagram and LinkedIn*

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