Disabled Turkey • 37

Disabled, but still human

Location

Cebu City, Philippines
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I'm here to meet girls of any age for dating, friendship, serious relationship and networking.

About me

I was born with a spinal problem, which is why I’m disabled. I walk differently compared to other people, and it is very obvious. When you are a foreigner, people look at you. But if you are a foreigner with a disability, being looked at becomes part of your daily life. No matter where I go, I attract attention without even trying. So prepare yourself, because if you go out with me, people will automatically look at you too, just for being with me.

By the way, the walking part is not the only “problem” I have, but it is all I am willing to share on this platform. There is more about my disability that one should know, but I’m going to keep that to myself until I meet a possible future partner/girlfriend.

For the record: yes, I am disabled, but I’m still living a pretty normal life, doing what most people do. So I am not in need of a helper or caretaker.

This is to summarize the person/character that I am:

* Not the most confident person in the world, but if someone stares at me for too long or mocks me for being disabled or for the way I walk, I tend to confront them.
* A pretty quiet person (for the most part), but I can be talkative when you find the right topic. I like to be talked to; I prefer other people making the first move.
* I consider myself a trustworthy and faithful person.
* I try to be there when people need me.
* If time allows, I like to go out for dinner or for non-alcoholic beverages and coffee or tea.
* I don’t drink, and I don’t smoke.
* I have no kids, and I’ve never been married.
* I have cats and a dog.
* I have tattoos on my arms, and I’m planning to add more in the future

About you

I am looking for an open-minded person, someone with a big heart. Being with someone like me isn’t something “usual,” and it requires a mentally strong person. A woman who can overlook my physical imperfections and shortcomings and also has thick skin in situations where people might be looking at us for being together.

Aside from that, I’m looking for someone who isn’t afraid of acknowledging me as their partner, if it ever comes to that point.

I like a woman who doesn’t party a lot. If you like to drink occasionally, I’m fine with that, as long as it remains exactly that—an occasional thing.

I appreciate a “one-man woman,” even though I know that as a disabled man, I am not exactly what one might consider a “jackpot.”

That’s all for now. Thanks for dropping by. Take care