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I'm here to meet girls 40 to 70 years old for dating, friendship, serious relationship and networking.

About me

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Hi, my name is Chad. Nice to meet you. I am here to meet mature women, I am retired from the United States, a place that has shaped a big part of who I am. My journey has not been the easiest, but it has made me strong, grounded, and deeply appreciative of real connection. I have two tattoos on my body that stay hidden from the public at all times. I know they might scare some people off, but to me, they are not just ink. They are pieces of who I am.
I have four children, all grown and on their own, living back in the States. And just to set things straight, I am 100% single. You do not have to worry. I even have proof of no marriage or divorce to prove it. 😅😅I do have a wild side, and yes, I keep it under control in public. 😅😅
I am a young 65, still learning and growing. And yes, sometimes I joke that I need a "rescue mission" for love. 😅 But really, I am just here to meet good people, have real conversations, and see where things go. I have been let down before, just like you, by people who were not ready to be real or consistent. I am here now looking for someone genuine, open to a real, loving, caring relationship. No more half hearted love.
I am the kind of man who stays, through the highs and lows, the silent moments, the in between days. I carry my weight with grace, with heart, and with quiet strength. And I am hoping to find someone who will stand beside me, not behind or ahead, but beside me. Someone who will match effort with effort, presence with presence, and love with love. Something deeper than words.
I would say I am a bit of a hopeless romantic. I believe there is someone out there for me. Someone who enjoys deep conversations, having fun, date nights, PDAs, and just about everything that makes a relationship work. Relationships take two. I know what I can bring to the table. How about you? I know I am not perfect, but I hope to find someone who sees my worth and chooses to understand me instead of judging me on where I come from, my past, my looks, or my age. I will admit, I do have a playful, slightly naughty side too, but I only bring that out when I feel safe and truly connected with someone. For me, real chemistry starts with trust and emotional closeness. The fun and flirty part just follows naturally. 😉
I love trying new things, going to new places, or just relaxing with a good Netflix series. I sometimes go to church on Sunday. I am a pretty outgoing person who enjoys the simple things in life, like good laughs, good food, good people, meaningful conversations, as well as quiet moments. I believe real connections start with genuine interest, not just small talk. 😊 Just to let you know, I am real. And I might be open to a phone call first, and then maybe a video call here on DIA. But please do not rush me. It will not work for you. Also do not rush to get me off this site. If I feel safe and comfortable with you, I just might share my WhatsApp number with you. Let us build something honest, real, and not rushed. 😊
Sometimes I really wonder what people are truly looking for on DIA. As for me, I am not just here for casual chats and by no means any type of fling. I am at the stage in life where I am dating with the intention of marriage, hopefully. Serious, really serious committed relationships are not one sided. They are two sided. Committed relationships show respect. Yeah, I know. I am not the man of your dreams. But I am also not here to talk trash to you either. Yeah, I know, I look like I am high or half drunk. That is not true by a long shot. The truth is, I have T.E.D., an eye disease. That is the reason for the glasses and shade clips. In case you were wondering. If you want an updated pic, just ask.I am considered by most to be a "Sigma Male." Google it for a better understanding. I am also here for information about your Country and or city, as well as culture. If I happen to reach out to you, it will be honest and respec

About you

If you know what these r, then, there jus might be a chance.
1. Attraction
2. Connection
3. Intimacy
4. Commit
5. Deepening Love
Honesty, Trustworthy, Maturity..

To the One Who Might Be Reading This,

If you're still here, still reading, then maybe, just maybe, this is meant for you.
I'm not just looking for someone to pass time with. I’m looking for something real. A connection that feels like coming “Home” . A love that’s grounded in trust, effort, and presence. I want a true partner, someone responsible, emotionally mature, and kind. Someone who understands what real love and being in love means, it's about showing up, It's in the little things, the small acts of consistency, the way we hold space for each other through the quiet and the chaos.

If ever I fall, I would hope you will be there, steady, strong, and patient. And if you fall, I will be there for you, steady, strong, patient, and if the day ever comes when you feel low, I’ll be there to lift you up, to remind you who you are and that you are loved, let us be each other’s peace, each other’s strength, a safe place in a world just for us, that can often be too loud.

I’m drawn to genuine souls, mature, kind, empathetic, emotionally available as well as intelligent. A person who has a kind place in their heart for the elderly and the hanicapp, a person who dosent just hear, but truly LISTENS, not just listening at... I’m not asking for perfect, just real, alive, alert, present, open minded as well as honest.

So if you’re looking for a honest, open, no games, and open to something meaningful, here’s the truth: communication is everything, it takes 2 especially when Life gets busy, and just plain crazy, but when someone truly cares, they make time, I do, and when I love, I love deeply, fully, loyally, present, and without games, what about you?

But let me be honest with you, I hope you've done all the healing you need, I'm not here to be a temporary fix for wounds someone else left behind. I want the version of you who's healed, ready, really ready. To love without fear, without baggage, without holding back. As they say, we don’t drink just because we’re thirsty, we drink because the cup is full and what’s inside is worth it.

if you like drinking and drugging, don't waste your time, you understand, also, I will run a back ground check on you to make sure you are telling the truth to protect myself.
If you would like a recent pic, jus ask. Anything else you would like to know, also, just ask, it's simple, jus ask.

So if you’re still reading this, maybe say “hello" 😊 and always remember, the man upstairs works in mysterious ways, do unto others as you would have them due unto you, take care, be careful....

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