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Novi Zagreb, Croatia
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I'm here to meet girls 20 to 35 years old for friendship, serious relationship, networking and more.
About me
Wanna get to know me?
Stop and read. If you don't wanna learn something about me, you still might learn something about online dating 🤷
Summary about me:
-you can call me Ben or Benny.
In Croatian that would be Beni, so suit yourself 😂
-I just got back from Germany to my home country to work in Croatia.
-I'm starting to work in a known world wide factory that produces electrical transformers. It originates from Croatia.
-throughout my life I learned a lot of things. Unfortunately those things aren't sufficient enough to run my own business. I have electrical laboratory at home. I fixed a few phones and laptops by now.
-in my free time I like to think of myself as a pilot 😅
So I kinda learned a lot about planes. I have real world platform on my laptop where pilots actually learn how to fly an airplane. But I'm currently in the process of relearning 🤷
-I also maintain my car by myself. I have learned something from my dad who was a car mechanic. Throughout the years I bought myself sufficient tools to do even advanced repairs on a car.
- I once played guitar. Please don't make me play something, because I don't know much songs. And I'm shy to sing too 😅
- I had my golden era in high school where I actually was one of the smartest students in school. If you wanna know why I said that I "had" golden era you're free to ask 🤗
-if you're asking yourself what's with my college... Well unfortunately the sad truth is I was only bad at waking up in the morning. So that is why I didn't finish electrical engineering 🤷
-I'm looking for a person that will be a reflection of myself. I'm fully aware that the person I'm describing could be only me, but I'm willing to adjust myself and I'm asking from you the same. Love is a job too. If you don't work hard on love, you might get unemployed, unpaid or no promotion 😅
Love is not what we see on television, or what we have by default in our heads.
It can often be a full time job.
If you don't think you are that kind of person I beg you for your own sake not to make another ruined family on this world. One day your child will need you to be mentally stable and a child needs both parents in fact.
-if there's a will there's a way. It's a very known proverb, but I use it as an axiom(fact). So any problem between us can be solved only if we both wanna solve it.
-I have no excess money to share. I beg scammers not to ask me for money, because all they can get is BAN from dateinasia site.
-btw I hope it's clear by now I'm not here for games.
-I'm a veteran around here. I've been here on ON and OFF for 8 years if I'm not mistaken. I know how everything around here goes.
A little bit of my wisdom: 😅...
So we all base our first impressions on the photo. Let's just all admit that. It's how we pick our life partners 🤷
It is a bit hursh to judge a person not even by the covers...
But I already made my peace with it, and I do that too. So I have no right to complain about it 😂😂
If we crossed that on our bucket list, then the chatting begins.
First message is crucial. I made a few tests... Saying just hi! Or hello! Doesn't really bring much attention.
But if a person has something on its profile that describes her, it's a doorway for me to send the first message which has personal content. So please write something about yourself in your profile too 😅
We all already have the perfect partner in our heads. But I believe most people just do not lower their criteria. Many people search for the "right" one. Well I'm sorry to shock you with the truth, but there's no "right" or "left" guy 🤷
Any guy can become the right guy.
We all have free will and choice to make about our life partners. With the same free will and choice we can make mistakes too. But no one thinks of mistakes until mistakes have been made and it's too late. It's about personality and effort. So just an advice for people who think that love is a powe
About you
You can search for the "right" guy all your life, and you might not find him. The crucial step in finding a person with whom you're gonna spend your life with is being persistent and to communicate. I often encounter
floppy conversations because the other person isn't really ready to give her energy into the conversation... 😅🙄
So then I'm not gonna chat with you for both of us. Sorry bout that 🤷
I'm a guy who can make a lot of jokes, but at the same time I'm a guy who is committed to the conversation from day 1. Maybe some people think they can use me, and my efforts... But not for long.
Please folks use your brains in a relationship. It's the only thing that can save you from a bad relationship, or make some good progress.
I see many young girls having kids around here... Logic says something happened with the father. Having a child especially in Philippines is no easy task. It's especially more harder when a child has a child. It's a one way ticket, and it doesn't just happen out of no where 🤷
You know... People do some things when there's no light in the bedroom. There's a thin line between getting pregnant and not getting pregnant. Someone would say it happened... But it can't just happen. If I burn my furniture with a lighter and blow every little flame, it's just a matter of time when that little flame will become a big fire, if I don't blow it off in time.
I hope you understood the metafor.
I would like to especially indicate how older girls than me think how my life skills are within range of a sweet 4yo baby boy😅
BTW I really got bored so I made a test. I chatted an older girl claiming that I'm older than her. We chatted for around 10 days. Everything was great, but I told her the truth that I'm being younger... Within hours our chatting tension faded away. So the point of the story is that younger people could have everything that older person has. Except we were born later. So please don't judge me, because my mother gave birth to me later. 🤷
An additional fact is that men die sooner. So there are many widows on this earth that are alone in the final years of our lives. So why not balance that with a younger boyfriend?
Not all of us are immature at my age.
I'm just saying 😂
BTW I had better progress in chatting if a girl was older 🤷
Some funny thing I read on the internet: "love is like a fart. If you have to push it, it's probably sh" 😂😂😂
It's maybe a bit rude, but very easy to remember. If you think about it, it's totally true. So just a friendly advice... Relationship is going or it's not going 😅
But there's no book yet written about it. So please use your inner thoughts and intuition, not just feelings.
I wrote this to speed up the process of getting to know each other. As well as understanding my point of view about relationships. So if you share the same opinion, I think we just skipped the boring part of the conversation and that we skipped first few days of conversation 😅
Lastly you'll get a reply for sure if I know you read all this 🤗😅
And btw yes I Can talk a lot... So be prepared 😂
I would have wrote more, but I got to the limit of characters 😂
Personal info
6'1" (186cm) and athletic.