Adequate Observer • 42

High Functioning Man

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I'm here to meet girls 19 to 36 years old for dating, friendship and serious relationship.

About me

Salutations visitor. By those who know me well, I have been described as sophisticated, straight forward, goal oriented, and good listener with an odd sense of humor. I keep a small circle of close friends and value true connections. So you will not see me partaking in vapid activities such as social media, bars, and clubs. I consider those sorts of activities as shallow wastes of time.

I am not a simple man. I have a complex layer of qualities within my personality. Most of my complexity has come from years of travel, business networking, and humanitarian work. After a person immerse themselves in different cultures, it changes how they view the world. My travels have made me come to realize the we often live in an information bubble which limits our understanding of the world. With a mind that has been truly open for over a decade now, I find myself on a never-ending quest to learn as much as I can from my travels and experiences.

Because of my commitment to continuous improvement and the high standards I hold myself to, I can been seen by some as strict. But the reality is, I am a man who has well defined personal and professional goals and have taken time to set myself up to reach those goals. I seek balance in life so I divide my time for fun, rest, and professional achievement.

I am a high-functioning man who has lived independent for my entire adult life. As a former certified chef, I am proficient in the kitchen and with home upkeep. I am not interested in what most men seek online such as empty pleasure and other types of fun.

Please understand this ladies: I will never talk to most of you. But I want you all to succeed in your goals here. I don't want any of you to be scammed or taken advantage of. But we need to change the way we think about relationships. Online dating is very competitive and the pool of candidates is underwhelming on both sides. Ask yourself "How do you stand out" in a platform full of uninteresting people? Along with the emotional aspects of a relationship, we need to consider the practical part of relationships such as resource availability, your goals, and what you bring to the table(not money, but other attributes of your personality that have practical use). If you only bring your looks to the table with no other attributes, you will likely not secure a high-quality partner. So I implore you to expand your minds for a better opportunity and be very mindful of how you present yourself online. How we present ourself determines they type of people we attract.

A sophisticated man is nothing that should be avoided. Here is reality: If you seek a simple man, you will get a man who plays games. While there are some exceptions to this rule, a simple man typically lacks the motivation to achieve major goals in life. Therefore, a simple man will usually not even be able to afford overseas travel to visit you in the first place as it is incredibly expensive. And that's why so many men are not serious about their motivations here online. That is why I encourage you to think outside the box and reach for higher quality. I send my best wishes to you all. Be safe out here.

About you

I am not a good fit for a woman who considers herself simple if she not goal oriented. I am not seeking someone to take care of me domestically as we should be sharing domestic duties as a team. I am seeking a life partner who has the desire to stand with me to build a family foundation based on mutual respect, safety, financial strength, and a commitment to excellence in all we set ourselves to. I am not interested in a woman who is active on social media, we are all too old for that at this point. Your validation should be coming from your progress in life, not from the attention you get from people online.

I seek a woman who values emotional intelligence as much as I do. I respect a woman who doesn't argue as I tend to resolve conflict or disagreement through calm conversation. A good partner is one who is available emotionally but also cooperative when it pertains to the goals that are set. We will have differences for certain, but having shared goals is important as you cant reach the destination when the steering wheel is being turned in different directions at the same time.