cjwinkc • 53
cjwinkc
cjwinkc • 53

Still looking for that one.

Hashtags

#lovefamily#traveling#cooking#movies#walkingonabeach#sunsetdinner#peoplewatching#musiclover

Location

  Olathe (KS), United States  [ show map ]

Some photos of me

I'm here to

I'm here to meet girls 18 to 45 years old for dating, friendship and serious relationship.

About me

Please read my profile completely if you want to chat. Especially the part about why I put undecided for kids down below.

i would describe myself as a traveler but haven't gotten to travel as much as i like lately (my son is 16 yrs old and once he is older i will be able to get around more, right now its once a year out of the states, where i would like 2-3 times a year). Once my son graduates i will be traveling 2 or 3 times a year.. i really would like a partner that likes that.

Open to new experiences, will try almost any food, and have always been open to new experiences. i would rather go somewhere more quiet than a terribly crowded area. Beach before Mountain. i think i am quiet, but i do have a good sense of humor when someone gets me to open up. I like to watch people but dont like super crowded noisy places.. I lead a quiet humble life. Save the money for trips or kid rather than flashy stuff for me.

Divorced almost 5 years now, and now i am open to having more in my life. I do know i am looking for a long term relationship.. but im realistic enough to know it wont be easy.

I do understand the change from chatting to a visit is a big jump.. i really would like to be into a solid relationship before a trip overseas (when the timing allows) as it is very far and i only have so much vacation per year.

i am looking for that person i want to talk to every day.. the one that will convince me to get on that airplane and do anything to have her next to me.

About you

i am looking for someone that is intelligent, beautiful, caring, but has a mischievous streak like i do :).
i do appreciate a woman that bites.. as i bite sometime :). (but must know when to bite and when it would be more appropriate to bat her eyelids to convince me to do something)

the ability to hold a conversation is critical, but at the same time able to have quiet time cuddled on a couch where there are not a need for words.

Just to be clear the reason I put undecided on want to have kids. I am 53 if I have a new child that child would be 20 whenever I am close to 73. That does not leave a lot of time for travel and other things. I am completely okay with dating and or marrying a woman that has kids already. And i am okay with dating a woman that does not want kids. But if you want to have new kids or build a family a kids i may need convincing.

I also understand that true love would change or could change all of that and that if the woman that I love really wanted a child I would probably give it to her. I'm a man that's the fun part you know.

Personal info

Age:
53
Gender:
Male
Location:
Olathe (KS), United States
Appearance:
Average
5'10" (179cm) and a few extra kg / pounds.
 
Occupation:
IT
 
Has children:
Yes (Lives with)
Wants children:
Undecided
Smoking:
Non smoker
Drinking:
Light / social drinker
 
Relationship status:
Divorced
Education:
University - Graduated
Religion:
Other